Thursday, April 9, 2026

偶然还是被设定?

人类有3个重要的苹果🍎
第一颗是阿当吃的那一颗
第二颗是牛顿看见从树上坠落的那颗
第三颗是Steve Jobs 的苹果品牌

牛顿看着,就发现万有引力
说引力是产生于两个物质之间
这理论对低质量和低速度的物体测得完美无缺,但测量水星绕太阳的轨道就有所偏差。。

两百多年后,在专利局就职的爱因斯坦,在1905年提出狭义相对论:E = mc² 质量和能量其实是可以互相转换的!也就是说:物质可以变成能量,能量也可以变成物质。

而在1916年他再提出广义相对论,解析引力不是一种“拉力”,而是“时空的弯曲”所产生的效果。质量和能量会让“时空”弯曲,而物体只是沿着弯曲的时空运动。

这更推测出宇宙间超级重物质而让其周围的空间都被扭曲,连光也无法逃脱,这就是黑洞的存在。这更探索到黑洞与白洞的连接桥梁,称Einstein–Rosen Bridge(爱因斯坦–罗森桥),更常见的名字是: “虫洞(Wormhole)” 的时光隧道。
物质从黑洞吸入,从白洞吐出。。的时空之旅。
理论上是存在的,事实和其可行性有待实验去证明。。

也有科学家提出(big bang )大爆炸就是白洞吐出所有的能量,经历138亿年之后的演变造就了探索人和其居住的地球🌍。

这一切是多么的美,因缘聚集足够,各种条件聚会,形成今天看见的一切,就是那么的独特,唯美。。

Humanity has three important apples 🍎

The first is the one Adam ate.

The second is the one Newton saw fall from the tree.

The third is the Apple brand founded by Steve Jobs.

Newton observed it and discovered universal gravitation.

He stated that gravity arises between two objects.

This theory worked perfectly for objects with low mass and low speed, but it was flawed when measuring Mercury's orbit around the sun.

More than two hundred years later, Einstein, working at the patent office, proposed the special theory of relativity in 1905: E = mc². Mass and energy are actually interconvertible! That is, matter can be converted into energy, and energy can be converted into matter.

In 1916, he proposed the general theory of relativity, explaining that gravity is not a "pulling force," but rather an effect produced by the "curvature of spacetime." Mass and energy cause spacetime to curve, and objects simply move along this curved spacetime.

This further suggests that super-heavy matter in the universe distorts the space around it, preventing even light from escaping—this is the existence of black holes. This further explores the connection between black holes and white holes, known as the Einstein-Rosen Bridge, or more commonly, a "wormhole"—a time tunnel.

Matter is drawn in by black holes and expelled by white holes... a journey through spacetime.

Theoretically, this exists; however, its feasibility and reality await experimental verification.

Some scientists have also proposed that the Big Bang was caused by a white hole releasing all its energy, which, after 13.8 billion years of evolution, created humans and the Earth we inhabit.

How beautiful all of this is! Sufficient conditions and a convergence of circumstances have shaped everything we see today—it's so unique and beautiful.

Wednesday, April 8, 2026

小孩不笨

This phenomenon has indeed been studied in child psychology.

<When a group of children are playing individually, you might notice a particular child who is particularly good at attracting other children to play with him, or who can create games for everyone to play together. Will this child be exceptionally talented when he grows up?>

This child has "potential," but that doesn't mean he will "definitely be exceptional when he grows up."

The key lies in: the environment he receives and whether these abilities are continuously developed.

 This child possesses social leadership:

1) Proactively approaches others

2) Organizes group activities

3) Gets others to follow

In psychology, this is considered an early form of leadership behavior, similar to what might develop into:

Team leader
Manager
Entrepreneur

He also has charisma/society

This type of child typically:

Expresses themselves naturally

Importantly makes others feel comfortable

He is creative

"He can create games"

This is important, representing:

Strong imagination
Ability to establish rules
The ability to make the "boring" interesting

These abilities are common later in life in:

Entrepreneurship
Product design
Education
Content creation

He has initiative

Instead of waiting for others to come to him, he:

Actively creates opportunities

In psychology, this is called:

intrinsic motivation

He is not "already great," but "has the seed to become great."

在儿童心理学里确实有研究过的现象。。

<一群孩童分散的各自玩耍
会发现某小孩特别会吸引其他小孩和他一起玩,或他会创造游戏让大伙儿一起玩,这某孩子长大后会特别厉害吗?>

这种孩子“有潜力”,但不等于“长大一定很厉害”
关键在于:后天环境 + 是否持续发展这些能力。

这某小孩有社交领导力
(Social Leadership)

1)主动接近别人
2)组织大家一起玩
3)让别人愿意跟随

这在心理学里属于早期领导行为的雏形,类似于未来可能发展成:

团队领导者
管理者
创业者

他还有社交吸引力
(Charisma / Sociability)

这种孩子通常:

表达自然
情绪开放
容易让别人感到舒服

他附有创造力(Creativity)

“他会创造游戏”

这很重要,代表:

想象力强
有规则建立能力
能把“无聊变有趣”

这类能力在长大后很常见于:

创业
产品设计
教育工作
内容创作

他有主动性(Initiative)

不是等别人来找他,而是:
 他主动创造机会

在心理学里,这叫:

内在驱动力(intrinsic motivation)

他不是“已经厉害”,而是“有成为厉害的种子”

Tuesday, March 31, 2026

老婆,生日快乐🎂

老婆,生日快乐🎂
一起快乐过每一天,一起到老!

Thursday, March 26, 2026

daydreaming ● 钓灵感

"When you sit with a nice girl for two hours, you think it's only a minute. 

But when you sit on a hot stove for a minute, you think it's two hours. 

--- That's relativity!" Einstein explained 

When a person seat in front of 
TV drama for 2 hours, he or she feels like nothing in the end; 

if for me to see TV drama for 2 minutes, I felt very uncomfortable, like I was wasting my time...

I rather doing daydreaming to catch inspiration, thinking n writing something to full use my mind, in order to make sure my brain is 'workable' all the time...haha 😄 

“当你和一个漂亮的女孩坐在一起两个小时时,你会觉得只过了一分钟;

但当你在滚烫的炉子上坐一分钟时,却感觉像过了两个小时。

——这就是相对论!”这是爱因斯坦的解释。

当一个人坐在电视机前看电视剧两个小时,最后会觉得好像什么都没发生一样;

但如果让我看电视剧两分钟,我就会觉得很不舒服,好像在浪费时间……

我反而更愿意发发白日梦来获取些灵感,思考并写下一些东西,充分运用我的大脑,确保它一直保持“运作”的状态……哈哈 😄

觉培法师KLCC演说和新书签名会

觉培法师

第一次认识觉培法师,是在<星云传承>,<佛教靠我>的两张DVD中,法师是星云大师的弟子。

法师警戒的说世界上的佛教徒越来越少,递减,有危机感,认为佛教没有被人们真正的认识,没有得到广大的推广,大家都还做得不够。。

随着星云大师<给>的发愿,法师也极力推荐<给>的力量,为佛教做出最大的付出。

这是一本2025年6月出版的新书<浩浩师恩 - 星云大师的慈悲与愿行>,从觉培法师细说中了解到星云大师的【不忍众生苦】的慈悲和提倡的人间佛教。

我是在2024年5月1日的东禅寺读书会见证觉培法师对人间佛教,研究经文中是如此的认真,追求真理的意愿是如此的强烈与坚定,是读书会的好导师。

今天的KLCC 书展,有觉培法师的演讲和新书签名会,可惜我因工作在身,无法出席。在此为法师打个广告,请大家多多支持这本好书!

Venerable Jue Pei

My first encounter with Venerable Jue Pei was through two DVDs, “Xing Yun’s Legacy” and “Buddhism Relies on Me.” Venerable Jue Pei is a disciple of Venerable Master Hsing Yun.

The Venerable has cautioned that the number of Buddhists in the world is decreasing, which brings a sense of crisis. He believes that Buddhism has not been truly understood by people, nor has it been widely promoted, and that we have all not done enough.

Following Venerable Master Hsing Yun’s aspiration of “giving,” Venerable Jue Pei strongly advocates the power of giving and strives to contribute as much as possible to Buddhism.

This is a new book published in June 2025, “The Vast Grace of the Master – The Compassion and Vows of Venerable Master Hsing Yun.” Through Venerable Jue Pei’s detailed narration, readers can better understand Venerable Master Hsing Yun’s compassion of “not bearing to see sentient beings suffer” and his advocacy of Humanistic Buddhism.

On May 1, 2024, at the Dong Zen Temple reading group, I witnessed Venerable Jue Pei’s dedication to Humanistic Buddhism and the study of scriptures. Her pursuit of truth is remarkably strong and steadfast, making her an excellent mentor in the reading group.

Today, at the KLCC Book Fair, there was a talk by Venerable Jue Pei along with a book signing session. Due to work commitments, I am unable to attend. I would like to take this opportunity to help promote it—please support this wonderful book!

Wednesday, March 25, 2026

如何才算是成功的人生?

<如何才算是成功的人生?>

我问AI, 它回答如下。。

这是一个很深、但也很真实的问题。其实,“成功的人生”没有唯一标准,它更多取决于你真正重视什么。不过,我们可以从几个角度来看,让你更清晰:

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🌱 一、内心层面:你是否活得安心、自在

很多人外在看起来成功,但内心焦虑、空虚。
真正的成功,往往是:

心里踏实,不常后悔

面对得失比较平衡

知道自己为什么而活

就像佛教里说的“知足常乐”,不是没有追求,而是不被欲望绑架。

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💡 二、成长层面:你有没有变得更好

成功不只是结果,而是过程:

是否比过去更成熟、更有智慧

是否能处理情绪、人际关系

是否持续学习、进步

一个不断进步的人,本身就在成功的路上。

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❤️ 三、关系层面:你与人的连接

人生很大一部分价值,其实来自关系:

有真心的家人、朋友

能给予别人帮助、温暖

被信任、被需要

很多人在生命后期回头看,最珍贵的不是钱,而是人与人的情感。

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🏆 四、世俗层面:成就与贡献

当然,现实世界也有它的衡量标准:

事业、财富、地位

对社会的贡献

实现自己的目标

但关键是:
👉 这些是否是你自己想要的,还是别人定义的?

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🧘 五、意义层面:你是否活出“意义”

这是更深一层:

你是否觉得自己的人生有意义

是否做过对他人、社会有益的事

是否活得对得起自己内心

有些人简单生活、做义工、布施,却活得非常充实,这也是一种很高层次的成功。

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🌟 总结一句话

成功的人生 = 活得清醒 + 持续成长 + 有爱与连接 + 做自己认为有意义的事

... ...
我只是知道,人生不会得完美,得到这个,或许就会失去那个,从个人成长与健康,家庭和谐安乐,财富自由与自在,社会地位与奉献,到生活意义的追求与实现,这一切,可否追得到个完美?

文和图,借分享。。

戏水合照

冒着手机掉进泳池的风险
来拍一张和老婆的戏水合照
游泳可放松,互动可松弛一下。。

Happy Gethering 同事生日聚餐

Happi Bday to 2 Gentlemen,
May your life full with joys n happiness 😊