王校长，一路走好

至我敬爱的王朝龙校长：

想起以前您常常于很严肃的性格办学校事务，常常在中学预备班时看见在校长室外面，校长鞭打犯错的学生，看在眼里，心都有些慌。。

我若仿佛心想的，都会事成。

就在一次老师没上课，身为班长的我在班上维持次序，所以得以走来走去，我们当时看到校长正朝我们的班走来，我也马上坐回位置，但，校长以为我在班上捣蛋，他来到我的位置，robot cop的把我拉出去，我紧张的回头和他说，我是班长。。校长瞪一瞪我，才放我回班上，坐回位置后，我定一定惊，双眼还是流下刚才害怕的眼泪😭。。经历过差一点就被剃眉毛的惊险，回想起，心还有些pic pok pic pok..

无论如何，我还是很感谢校长的威严处事方式，让我们学校名声越来越好。。

王校长，愿您：一路走好，安息主怀 🙏

妻子的耐性与植物的重生

妻子的耐性与植物的重生

上天赐予妻子一种难得的天赋——耐心。

无论做什么事，她从不敷衍，也不急于求成。每一个步骤都细致入微，每一个细节都认真对待。从开始的规划，到最后的完成，总是有头有尾，有始有终。

这一天，我陪着妻子当起了小园丁。

她专注地修剪着每一株植物，轻轻剪去枯叶，细细整理枝干，仿佛在与植物低声交谈。而我则坐在一旁，充当她最忠实的听众，陪她天南地北地聊着，享受这份平凡却温暖的时光。

看着那些被修剪过的植物，我忽然明白，修剪并不是结束，而是另一种形式的开始。

有些枝叶必须舍弃，有些枯萎必须放下，生命才能腾出空间，迎接新的成长。

当植物重新扎根于肥沃的泥土，重新拥抱阳光、空气与雨露时，它们仿佛获得了第二次生命。过去的枯黄与凋零，已成为成长的养分；曾经的伤痕与挫折，也将化作未来绽放的力量。

人生又何尝不是如此？

每个人都会经历低谷，都会遭遇挫折与风雨。有时我们不得不告别过去，修剪那些不再属于自己的枝节，放下执念与遗憾，才能轻装前行。

只要心中依然怀着希望，就像植物始终向着阳光生长一样，无论前方道路多么崎岖坎坷，无论风雨如何猛烈，都能坚持自己的初心，努力向上。

因为生命最动人的地方，不在于从未凋零，而在于即使经历风霜，依然选择重新出发；即使被岁月修剪过，依然能够向阳而生，茁壮成长。

而妻子的耐心，正像那位默默守护生命的园丁，用时间与爱心，见证每一次重生的奇迹。

My Wife's Patience and the Rebirth of Plants

Thanks to bestowed upon my wife a rare gift—patience.

She never does anything half-heartedly, nor is she impatient for quick results. Every step is meticulous, every detail treated with care. From initial planning to final completion, everything is done thoroughly and completely.

This day, I accompanied my wife as she became a little gardener.

She focused intently on pruning each plant, gently trimming withered leaves and carefully tidying the branches, as if she were whispering a conversation with the plants. I sat beside her, her most loyal listener, chatting with her about everything under the sun, enjoying this ordinary yet warm moment.

Looking at the pruned plants, I suddenly understood that pruning is not the end, but rather another form of beginning.

Some branches and leaves must be discarded, some withered leaves must be let go, so that life can make room for new growth.

When the plants re-root themselves in fertile soil, embracing sunlight, air, and rain once more, they seem to gain a second life. The withered and decaying of the past have become nourishment for growth; the scars and setbacks of the past will transform into the strength for future blossoming.

Isn't life just like that?

Everyone experiences lows, encounters setbacks and storms. Sometimes we have to say goodbye to the past, prune those branches that no longer belong to us, let go of obsessions and regrets, so that we can move forward lightly.

As long as we still hold hope in our hearts, like plants always growing towards the sun, no matter how rugged and bumpy the road ahead, no matter how fierce the wind and rain, we can still hold on to our original aspirations and strive upwards.

Because the most moving aspect of life is not that it never withers, but that even after experiencing hardships, it still chooses to start anew; even after being pruned by time, it can still grow towards the sun and thrive.

And my wife's patience is like that of a gardener who silently guards life, witnessing the miracle of every rebirth with time and love.

奇迹！

人生，就是不断地期待奇迹，也不断地创造奇迹！

很多人总以为，奇迹一定是惊天动地的事情；一定要是中了大奖、事业飞黄腾达，或梦想一夜成真。然而，真正的奇迹，往往就藏在我们最平凡的日常里。

今天早晨，当你从睡梦中醒来，缓缓睁开双眼，感受到阳光洒落在脸上，四肢能够自由活动，身体依然健康无恙，这本身就是一个奇迹。

当你与家人互道一声早安，能够听见声音、看见笑容，感受到彼此的陪伴，这也是一个奇迹。

到了中午，桌上有一顿温热的饭菜，可以安安心心地一口一口品尝食物，不必为饥饿发愁，不必为温饱担忧，这同样是一个奇迹。

一天之中，我们穿梭于人群之间，与无数陌生人擦肩而过。路上的司机遵守交通规则，身边的人彼此礼让，工作顺利完成，没有发生意外，没有遭遇伤害，没有突如其来的噩耗，这些看似理所当然的事情，其实都是生命赐予我们的奇迹。

傍晚时分，拖着疲惫的身躯回到家中，发现家人平安、朋友安好，自己还能静静地坐下来喝一杯热茶，欣赏晚霞或夜空，这也是一种难得的幸福与奇迹。

更大的奇迹是：

遇到困难时，仍然拥有重新站起来的勇气；

失落的时候，还有人愿意倾听和陪伴；

迷茫的时候，心中依然保有希望；

跌倒之后，依然相信未来会更好；

在纷扰的世界里，依然能够保持一颗善良的心。

其实，人生最大的财富，不是拥有多少，而是懂得珍惜多少。

当我们开始为这些看似微不足道的点点滴滴心存感恩时，会发现世界变得不一样了。原本平淡的一天，充满了温暖；原本普通的人生，处处闪耀着光芒。

感恩清晨醒来的自己，感恩一路相伴的家人朋友，感恩生命中的每一次相遇，也感恩每一个平安无事的日子。

因为当你懂得感恩，你会发现：

爱，其实无所不在；

善意，其实无处不有；

温暖，其实一直都在人间。

人与人之间多一分理解，多一分包容，多一分关怀，世界便会多一分美好。每个人心中若都种下一颗爱的种子，那么走到哪里，都会感受到人间有情；遇见谁，都能感受到温暖与善意。

原来，奇迹从来不在远方。

奇迹，就在每一次呼吸之间；

奇迹，就在每一个平凡的今天；

奇迹，就在我们懂得珍惜与感恩的那一刻。

愿我们都能带着感恩的心走过人生，看见奇迹，创造奇迹，也成为别人生命中的奇迹。 

Life is a constant anticipation of miracles, and a constant creation of miracles!

Many people believe that miracles must be earth-shattering events; they must involve winning the lottery, achieving meteoric success, or having dreams come true overnight. However, true miracles often lie hidden in our most ordinary daily lives.

This morning, when you wake up, slowly open your eyes, feel the sunlight on your face, can move your limbs freely, and are still healthy, that in itself is a miracle.

When you greet your family with "Good morning," hear their voices, see their smiles, and feel each other's company, that too is a miracle.

At noon, a warm meal is laid out on the table, allowing you to enjoy your food peacefully, without worrying about hunger or sustenance—that, too, is a miracle.

Throughout the day, we move among crowds, brushing past countless strangers. Drivers obeying traffic rules, people yielding to each other, work completed smoothly without accidents, injuries, or sudden bad news—these seemingly ordinary things are actually miracles bestowed upon us by life.

Returning home weary in the evening to find family safe and sound, friends well, and the ability to sit quietly with a cup of hot tea, admiring the sunset or night sky, is also a rare happiness and miracle.

Even greater miracles are:

Having the courage to get back up when facing difficulties;

Having someone willing to listen and comfort you when you're down;

Having hope in your heart when you're confused;

Having believed in a better future after a fall;

Maintaining a kind heart in a chaotic world.

In fact, the greatest wealth in life is not how much you possess, but how much you know how to cherish.

When we begin to feel gratitude for these seemingly insignificant little things, we find the world changes. An ordinary day becomes filled with warmth; an ordinary life shines brightly everywhere.

 Grateful for the self I wake up to each morning, grateful for the family and friends who have accompanied me along the way, grateful for every encounter in life, and grateful for every peaceful day.

Because when you understand gratitude, you will discover:

Love is everywhere; kindness is everywhere; warmth is always present in the world.

The more understanding, tolerance, and care between people, the more beautiful the world will be. If everyone plants a seed of love in their heart, then wherever we go, we will feel human kindness; whoever we meet, we will feel warmth and goodwill.

Miracles are never far away.

Miracles are in every breath; miracles are in every ordinary day; miracles are in the moment we learn to cherish and be grateful.

May we all walk through life with grateful hearts, see miracles, create miracles, and become miracles in the lives of others.

小海龟

曾经在小学六年级，观看到WWF海龟生活的记录片，就对海龟情有独钟。

曾多次有机会接触小海龟。。

从旧公司Cherating club med团游，Segari 的光观，东海岸Petronas 与旧公司举办的活动，都有小海龟的放生仪式。。

一只一只的小海龟，用心的被放在沙滩上，让它朝海洋爬去，据说这是要让小海龟认识周围的海边，成长了，多年以后可有意识的回到此沙滩产卵，延续后代。

不知为何，每次看到小海龟，心都会被暖化了，这多么可爱的小宝贝，爬向海洋去开拓海洋世界时，祝伱排除万难，茁壮长大，据续的生存，保持永远的永远，长久的长久！

图，借分享。。

I developed a deep fascination with sea turtles after watching a WWF documentary about their lives when I was in standard sixth.

I've had many opportunities to interact with baby sea turtles.

From group tours with my former company's Cherating Club Med, sightseeing in Segari, and events organized by my former company in Petronas in the east coast, there have always been baby sea turtle release ceremonies.

Each baby sea turtle is carefully placed on the beach, allowed to crawl towards the ocean. It's said this is to help the baby turtles become familiar with the surrounding seashore, so that they may consciously return to this beach to lay eggs and continue their lineage years later.

For some reason, every time I see baby sea turtles, my heart melts. These adorable little creatures, crawling towards the ocean to explore its world, I wish you all the best, may you overcome all difficulties, grow strong, and survive forever!

(Photo borrowed n shared.)

从牛顿，爱因斯坦到量子力学。。

从牛顿, 爱因斯坦到量子力学：人类对宇宙认知的一场革命。

在人类探索宇宙的历史长河中，我们对世界的理解经历了数次翻天覆地的变化。

牛顿时代，人们相信宇宙是一部精密运转的机器。牛顿提出的经典力学告诉我们，只要知道一个物体的位置、速度以及所受的力，就能准确预测它未来的运动轨迹。在这种思想下，宇宙仿佛是一座巨大的时钟，每个齿轮都按照既定规律运转。一切都是绝对的、确定的，也是可以预测的。只要拥有足够的信息，未来似乎早已写好。

然而到了二十世纪，爱因斯坦打破了许多“绝对”的观念。他提出相对论，告诉世人时间和空间并非固定不变，而是会随着观察者的状态而改变。时间会伸缩，空间会弯曲，质量与能量甚至能够互相转换。

虽然爱因斯坦推翻了牛顿许多绝对性的观点，但他依然相信宇宙是有秩序的。他认为，在自然现象的背后，必定存在着深刻而严谨的规律。宇宙或许是相对的，但绝不是混乱无章的。

随后，量子力学的诞生再次震撼了整个科学界。

当科学家深入微观世界时，他们发现电子、光子等微观粒子的行为，与我们熟悉的宏观世界截然不同。海森堡提出了著名的“测不准原理”，指出我们无法同时精确知道一个粒子的位置和动量。观察本身会影响被观察的对象，宇宙似乎不再像牛顿时代那样完全可预测。

面对这种结果，爱因斯坦感到难以接受。他曾说过一句广为流传的话：

“上帝不会掷骰子。”

他相信宇宙深处一定存在某种隐藏规律，只是人类尚未发现。然而量子力学的发展却不断显示，在微观层面，世界并非按照确定轨迹运行，而是以概率的形式展开。

后来，科学家甚至进一步发现，仿佛上帝不仅在掷骰子，而且还把骰子扔到了我们看不见的地方。我们无法准确预测每一个粒子的行为，却能够精确计算它出现的概率。单个事件充满不确定性，但大量事件却展现出惊人的规律性。

于是，人类对宇宙的认知发生了深刻转变：

从牛顿的“绝对与确定”，到爱因斯坦的“相对但有序”，再到量子力学的“不确定却可计算”。

我们逐渐明白，宇宙并非简单的机械钟表，也不是毫无规律的混沌世界。它更像一首宏伟而深奥的交响乐，在确定与不确定、秩序与随机之间，演奏着我们尚未完全理解的旋律。

科学的发展并没有让宇宙变得更简单，反而让我们看到世界比想象中更加神秘。每一次理论的突破，都不是终点，而是通往更深层真相的新起点。

一个涵盖宇宙的统一理论尚未完成。。

From Newton， Einstein to Quantum Mechanics: A Revolution in Human Understanding of the Universe.

Throughout the history of human exploration of the universe, our understanding of the world has undergone several revolutionary changes.

In Newton's time, people believed the universe was a precisely functioning machine. Newton's classical mechanics told us that knowing an object's position, velocity, and the forces acting on it allowed us to accurately predict its future trajectory. Under this ideology, the universe seemed like a giant clock, with each gear operating according to predetermined laws. Everything was absolute, deterministic, and predictable. With enough information, the future seemed already written.

However, in the 20th century, Einstein shattered many of these "absolute" concepts. He proposed the theory of relativity, telling the world that time and space are not fixed but change depending on the observer's state. Time stretches, space curves, and mass and energy can even be interconverted.

Although Einstein overturned many of Newton's absolute views, he still believed in the order of the universe. He believed that behind natural phenomena, there must be profound and rigorous laws governing them. The universe may be relative, but it is by no means chaotic.

Then, the birth of quantum mechanics once again shook the entire scientific community.

When scientists delved into the microscopic world, they discovered that the behavior of microscopic particles such as electrons and photons was drastically different from the macroscopic world we are familiar with. Heisenberg proposed the famous "uncertainty principle," pointing out that we cannot simultaneously and precisely know the position and momentum of a particle. Observation itself affects the observed object, and the universe no longer seemed as completely predictable as it was in Newton's time.

Faced with this result, Einstein found it difficult to accept. He famously said:

"God does not play dice."

He believed that there must be some hidden laws deep within the universe, which humanity had not yet discovered. However, the development of quantum mechanics has continuously shown that at the microscopic level, the world does not operate according to a definite trajectory, but unfolds in the form of probability.

Later, scientists even further discovered that it seems God not only plays dice, but also throws them in places we cannot see. We cannot accurately predict the behavior of every single particle, but we can precisely calculate its probability of occurrence. Individual events are full of uncertainty, but a large number of events exhibit astonishing regularity.

 Thus, humanity's understanding of the universe has undergone a profound transformation:

From Newton's "absolute and certainty," to Einstein's "relative but ordered," and then to quantum mechanics's "uncertainty yet computability."

We have gradually come to understand that the universe is neither a simple mechanical clock nor a chaotic world devoid of any rules. It is more like a magnificent and profound symphony, playing melodies we have not yet fully comprehended, between certainty and uncertainty, order and randomness.

The advancement of science has not made the universe simpler; on the contrary, it has shown us that the world is more mysterious than we imagined. Every theoretical breakthrough is not the end, but a new starting point for reaching deeper truths.

A unified theory encompassing the universe is not yet complete..

hot of World Cup 2026世界杯热！

世界杯2026期间，

就来弄个热闹。。

makan Bola, mandi Bola

hidup Bola.. 😄

have fun n joyful together..

这次Vegrun 2026也有brother in law 一家人的支持。。

一起运动，

一起健康，

一起疏食，

一起环保，

一起爱❤地球🌍！

Vegrun 2026 前的热身。。

🌱🏃‍♂️ Vegrun 2024 • 2025 • 2026 🌍

为了健康，为了环境，为了地球。

转眼间，今年已经是我连续第3年参与 Vegrun 这项深具意义的活动。从最初的参与者，到如今成为理念的实践者，每一步都让我更加体会到健康生活、蔬食文化与环境保护的重要性。

Vegrun 不仅仅是一场跑步活动，更是一场关爱地球的行动。它提倡健康的生活方式，鼓励人们以蔬食减少对环境的负担，并唤醒大众对生态保育的关注。每一次迈开的步伐，都是对健康的承诺；每一次坚持的参与，都是对地球未来的一份守护。

地球是我们共同的家园，环境的永续需要每一个人的参与与努力。希望 Vegrun 这样的活动能够持续推广，让更多人加入健康、环保、爱地球的行列，共同为下一代创造更美好的生活环境。

让我们继续携手前行，为健康而跑，为环保而跑，为地球而跑！🌎💚

#Vegrun2024 #Vegrun2025 #Vegrun2026

#健康生活 #蔬食环保 #爱护地球 #永续发展

🌱🏃‍♂️ Vegrun 2024 • 2025 • 2026 🌍

For health, for the environment, for the planet.

In the blink of an eye, this year marks my third consecutive year participating in Vegrun, a deeply meaningful event. From an initial participant to now a practitioner of its principles, each step has deepened my understanding of the importance of healthy living, vegetarianism, and environmental protection.

Vegrun is more than just a running event; it's an action to care for the planet. It promotes a healthy lifestyle, encourages people to reduce their environmental burden through vegetarianism, and raises public awareness of ecological conservation. Every step taken is a commitment to health; every sustained participation is a safeguard for the future of our planet.

The Earth is our shared home, and environmental sustainability requires everyone's participation and effort. I hope that events like Vegrun can continue to be promoted, allowing more people to join the ranks of those who value health, environmental protection, and love our planet, working together to create a better living environment for future generations.

 Let's continue running together for health, for the environment, and for our planet! 🌎💚

#Vegrun2024 #Vegrun2025 #Vegrun2026 #HealthyLiving #Vegetarian #ProtectOurEarth #SustainableDevelopment

很好的学习课。

很好的学习课。

车子的唱机闹了个玩笑

唱机的软件不能再提升了。。

就拿回之前的汽车零件商问，

‘’为什么你事先没说唱机软件

到一段时间会不得提升？‘’

店主的回答就是一笑带过。。

过后，熟悉网上购物的妻子就买了一架我们都喜爱的唱机。。

这时，学问就来了。。

上网找到唱机牌子的组装商。。

一联络上，顿时就给我发冷水。

“你买的，是旧机，旧框需要换新和modify 的，倒车摄像头也不甘，要换新的。。”

在到家附近的汽车配件店问问。

‘’你买的是universal 的，装上你的旧框，唱机两旁会有细逢，看起来不美观，你的新唱机好像没有倒车摄像链接，你有没有买错？你上网买的，很贵啊，我们店的又便宜又好品质，你买这唱机是你要欣赏和享受它的声音质量，是吗？‘’

再来到我熟悉的汽车配件店，有幸他介绍我到附近的一家汽车配件组装店，这间有佛系的老板，看一看我的唱机，就说：‘’我们可以装‘’，开价还比前面两家便宜50％，不到一个小时，唱机全面安装得妥当，电台，声音，影音响也很合我的意思，当我退车要离开这店时，心还想着若我有其他亲戚朋友有需要到，我会义不容辞的推荐这间店给他们，就因为老板的佛系心态。。

所谓做生意，在商，都难免会要谋取多盈利，但，若能以真诚，真心真意的为客户着想，提供优质的服务而解决客户的问题，若提出的收费比市价贵一些，客户也会愿意接受的。

当制造了好口碑，一耳传一耳，一人传一人，生意就会越做越旺，不止新客户多，回头客还满满咯！

A great learning experience.

My car's CD player played a trick on me. The player software couldn't be upgraded anymore.

I took it back to the car accessories shop and asked,

"Why didn't you say beforehand that the player software would eventually need upgrading?" The shopkeeper just laughed it off.

Later, my wife, who's good at online shopping, bought a player that we both liked.

That's when the learning sessions started.

I found the CD player brand's assembler online.

As soon as I contacted them, they poured cold water on my enthusiasm..

"You bought a old version unit. Your car old frame needs to be replaced and modified, and the reversing camera also needs to be replaced."

I went to a nearby auto accessories store.

"You bought a universal one. With your car old frame installed, there will be small seams on both sides of the player, which won't look nice. Your new player doesn't seem to have a reversing camera connection. Did you buy the wrong one?" "You bought it online, it's very expensive. Our store's is cheaper and of better quality. You bought this record player because you want to appreciate and enjoy its sound quality, right?"

Then I went to a familiar auto accessories store, and luckily, the owner recommended a nearby car accessories assembly shop. This shop had a very laid-back owner. He looked at my CD player and said, "We can install it." His price was 50% cheaper than the previous two shops. In less than an hour, the player was fully installed, and the radio, sound system, and audio-visual functionality all suited my needs perfectly. 

As I reversing my car and left the shop, I was already thinking that if any of my relatives or friends needed it, I would definitely recommend this shop to them, all because of the owner's laid-back attitude.

In business, everyone inevitably wants to make a profit. However, if you can sincerely and genuinely consider the customer's needs and provide excellent service to solve their problems, even if the price is slightly higher than the market price, the customer will be willing to accept it.

When you create a good reputation, word spreads from one person to another, and your business will thrive. You'll not only attract more new customers, but also have plenty of repeat customers!

天空之镜 sky mirror

天空之镜，这活动

仿佛就是一个在海中，海水退潮后的一个嘉年华聚会。

载送游客从四面八方到来的船只，等水退到可步行时，就让游客缓缓的步下船。

一开始，觉得没什么特别，看到导游趴在海床（也就是我们踩着的泥浆）不停的挖，就是要挖个可盛水的小潭，导游也带来了“披风”的物品围着小潭，上面放上特别的雨伞，一个室外的照相室就此搭成了。

导游就开始拍照了，一个个家庭，或一群群朋友，在小潭前摆post, 背景是蓝天白云，这就形成‘’天空之镜‘’了。

根据开船载送我们前来的马来大叔（他一人干两三分工作），他说这地方，以前是渔民祭拜神明的地方，在疫情前，来这里的游客是多不胜数，也来自世界各地，他说，疫情期间收入可是0，生活是相当的辛苦，现在旅游业也逐渐的复苏了，庆幸养活妻子孩子们的重担也得到疏解了许多，也是他的孩子们让他有动力据续工作干活，据续的养家糊口！

在船上朝陆地前进回程时，脑海浮现导游那般如此的刻苦搭建“室外摄影室”，到船夫马来大叔的亲切细诉，感慨人最基本的生存就是‘’医肚子‘’，要填饱自己的肚子，而且还要有责任的喂饱家人们的肚子。。

月有阴晴圆缺，海水也随之而涨潮退潮，一切都再变，没有一样东西是得来理所当然，环境和情况如意时，我们需不忘逆境时的苦；问题和苦涩来临时，记得别放弃，咬紧牙根的挨过，雨过，就天晴了。。感恩！ 🙏

The "Sky Mirror" event felt like a carnival party in the sea after the tide receded.

Boats carrying tourists arrived from all directions, and once the water receded enough for walking, tourists slowly disembarked.

At first, it didn't seem particularly special. The tour guide was seen lying on the seabed (the mud we were walking on), digging tirelessly to create a small pool to hold water. The guide had brought "capes" to surround the pool, placing special umbrellas on top, thus setting up an outdoor photo booth.

The guide then started taking pictures. Families and groups of friends posed in front of the pool against the backdrop of blue sky and white clouds, creating the "Sky Mirror."

 According to the Malay boatman who brought us here (he did two or three jobs), this place used to be a place where fishermen worshipped their gods. Before the pandemic, it was teeming with tourists from all over the world. He said that during the pandemic, his income was zero, and life was extremely difficult. Now, the tourism industry is gradually recovering, and he's grateful that the burden of supporting his wife and children has been greatly relieved. His children are what motivate him to continue working and supporting his family!

On the return trip, heading towards land, I recalled the tour guide's painstaking efforts in building the "outdoor photography studio," and the boatman's kind words. I realized that the most basic survival skill is "filling one's stomach"—having to feed oneself and, more importantly, having the responsibility to feed one's family.

 The moon waxes and wanes, the tides rise and fall; everything is in flux. Nothing is ever truly ours for granted. When circumstances are favorable, we must not forget the hardships of adversity. When problems and bitterness arise, remember not to give up, grit your teeth and persevere. After the rain, the sun will shine again... Grateful! 🙏

内耗至曲终人散，烟消云散

箭头向内的团队，终将烟消云散

一个团队最可怕的，不是外面的敌人太强，而是内部的人，彼此把“箭头”对向自己人。

所谓“箭头向内”，就是团队成员不是一起面对问题，而是互相猜疑、争功、推责、攻击、打压。

久而久之，一个原本有能力、有理想、有实力的团队，也会慢慢走向瓦解。

因为真正毁掉一个团队的，往往不是外敌，而是内耗。

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内耗，比失败更可怕

有些团队，一开始人才济济。

大家都聪明、能干、有资源。

但问题是：

有功劳时，人人抢着站前面；

有责任时，人人急着撇清；

同事成功，会被嫉妒；

别人出错，会被放大；

不是想着如何把事情做好，而是想着如何赢过自己人。

这样的团队，看似还在运作，其实已经开始腐烂。

因为所有能量，不再用来开疆拓土，而是用来互相消耗。

就像一艘船，外面的风浪还没打沉它，船员却已经在里面互相凿洞。

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历史上的例子

三国时期的东吴晚年

三国时期，东吴曾经人才辈出。

但到了后期，内部党争严重，彼此攻击。

大臣之间互相排挤，太子之争更导致朝廷分裂。

国家大量精力，不是用来强国，而是耗在内部斗争。

最终，东吴国力不断衰弱，被西晋所灭。

很多时候，一个势力不是败给敌人，而是先败给自己。

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企业中的例子

现实中也一样。

有些公司，本来发展很好。

但部门之间互相抢资源、抢客户、抢功劳。

销售怪运营，运营怪财务，财务怪管理层。

会议越来越多，效率越来越低。

员工每天提防的，不是市场竞争，而是“自己人”。

最后：

好员工离开；

团队士气崩塌；

公司失去方向。

外面的竞争对手甚至还没真正出手，公司已经被内部消耗得差不多了。

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家庭也是一个团队

其实，不只是公司。

家庭也是团队。

若一家人天天互相埋怨、翻旧账、彼此伤害：

夫妻互不尊重；

兄弟姐妹互相算计；

长辈晚辈彼此冷漠；

那么这个家，即使有钱，也不会幸福。

真正兴旺的家庭，不一定最富有，

但一定懂得“箭头向外”，一起面对人生，而不是互相攻击。

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真正强大的团队

真正厉害的团队，都有一个共同点：

对外，可以并肩作战

对内，可以彼此包容

团队里当然会有意见不同。

但大家的目标一致：

不是“我赢你输”，

而是“我们一起赢”。

当问题出现时：

先解决问题，而不是先找替罪羊；

先保护团队，而不是先保护面子；

先团结力量，而不是扩大矛盾。

这样的团队，才走得远。

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结语

若一个团队，箭头是对内的，彼此互相残杀，

这队很快就会曲终人散，烟消云散。

因为内耗，永远是最昂贵的成本。

一个团队真正的力量，

从来不是谁最会斗争，

而是谁能让大家把力量，朝同一个方向前进。

MERDEKA Tower 118 KL

无情的火，满满回忆的老店

看到这视频，让我再次看到无常

新板巴刹前的咖啡店，有很多童年和儿时的记忆，常与家人在此咖啡店吃早餐，有我满满回忆好吃的椰浆饭和烧卖，香香的饭和美味的sambal 辣椒，配热热烧烧的烧卖，一口烧卖，一口椰浆饭，真的可口又好吃，这里的咖啡茶水很好喝，母亲多喜爱这店的咖啡冰，浓郁的咖啡味，这香味，总是只有故乡的浓。。

如今，无情的大火把这间藏有满满回忆记忆的咖啡店化为乌有，

从此就只能往爱在记忆中追寻，回味这店所带来所有不朽的记忆，永远烙印在心中，长长久久！

眼睛👀亮晶晶

还记得母亲说她小时侯在班上，班上学生只有一两位戴眼镜，现在的学校班上是一半以上都戴眼镜。。家人以前是一两位戴眼镜，现在大家都戴眼镜，而且有的眼镜还不止一副。。

在餐厅吃饭，常看到隔壁桌有小孩哭闹，大人就会惕上手机或平板电脑，小孩就会顿时安静和如此专注的看着这些3C产品。。

眼睛👀是灵魂之窗，非常的重要，尤其是年岁越增加，更需要保护，之前家族成员也有生眼膜白内障问题，所以上今天的讲座，来学习学习。。也和往常一样，上课做笔记，把讲座的价值记录，以备以后之用。。

Nvidia 芯片公司CEO 黃仁勳Jenssen Huang

Nvidia 芯片公司CEO 黃仁勳Jenssen Huang 在商界都商喻户晓，出街都万人要索取拍照签名，哈哈，今天来做个小粉丝，巧合，他戴的眼镜框和我的是同款，哈哈，真是个巧合。。☺️

北京，天坛

北京天坛位于北京市东城区，始建于明永乐十八年（1420年），是明清两代皇帝祭天、祈谷的场所。它是中国现存最大、保存最完整的古代祭天建筑群，1998年被列入世界遗产名录。

天坛分为内、外坛，北圆南方象征“天圆地方”，核心建筑包括祈年殿、圜丘、皇穹宇等。天坛核心景点与游览指南祈年殿 (祈谷坛): 

天坛的标志性建筑，位于北部，是一座圆形的三层大殿，专用于春季祈祷丰年。圜丘坛 (圜丘): 位于南部，是冬至日祭天的场所，包括三层白色石台，体现了古人对数字“九”的崇拜。

皇穹宇与回音壁: 皇穹宇是存放祭天神版的场所，其围墙即著名的“回音壁”，具有声学特色。

丹陛桥: 连接南北两坛的跨海甬道，长360米，高出地面。斋宫: 皇帝祭祀前进行“斋戒”的居所。

文，借分享。。

都要学习。。

小侄子学业开始突飞猛进了

从不爱读书，容易分心，

专注力差，好玩。。捣蛋。。

考试之前对他讲，若科学科目

可以拿到A, 我就请你吃大餐

成绩出炉，从以前的考33分不及格到这半年考试拿到82分，真是

有大跃进，进步了很多，好极了。。

但学生成绩固然重要，但其他方面也要成绩理想，若要有责任心，谦逊，懂得感恩，尊师重道，谢父母恩，待人和谐，多行善不为恶。。

让学生洗厕所，是一个蛮富有教育性的活动，让学生学会自立自理，懂要保持个人卫生，得到感受清洁工人这不容易的工作，从中让学生懂得尊重他人，懂得感恩。。这会是一个很有意义的活动和课程！

图，借分享。。

My nephew's studies have started to improve dramatically.

He used to dislike reading, was easily distracted, had poor concentration, and was playful and mischievous.

Before the exam, I told him that if he got an A in science, I would treat him to a big meal.

The results came out, and from failing with a score of 33, he had achieved 82 in the mid year exam —a huge leap forward! Excellent!

However, while academic performance is important, other aspects are also crucial. Students should be responsible, humble, grateful, respectful to teachers and parents, kind to others, and do good deeds.

Having students clean toilets is a very educational activity. It teaches them self-reliance, the importance of personal hygiene, and an understanding of the hard work of sanitation workers. It helps them learn to respect others and be grateful. This would be a very meaningful activity and lesson!

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自然就好

那天带妻子去诊所补牙

补完后她对我说，医生

有办法可以弄平她的牙齿

第一个闪过我的脑海的不是

弄牙贵不贵，而是心疼妻子

要唉这个痛和苦，于是我立刻

拒绝，不允许她去弄牙。。

牙齿生得自然就好，美不美

不重要，最重要我觉得没问题，

很好就好，别去惹那些不必要的痛，别去受那些不必要的苦，一切自然就好，牙齿白白，没蛀牙，就是好事，牙齿没摇，没痛就是更好事，别没事找事。。

听了，她也点头忘掉了那想法

。。哈哈😄

英顺，一路走好！

朋友英顺，

中学时期。。

有你在我们同学朋友群里

有你邀请我们到你家玩电玩

有你帮我录制好几个好歌的卡带

有你常让我们笑口常开，眉开眼笑

有你一起上课，一起上补习班

今天得知你的离世，这太突然了

愿你安息，一路走好，早登极乐世界。🙏

缺陷美

刘德华 Andy Lau -

香港影视男演员 

懂得欣賞缺陷也是另一種美麗 

没有黑夜・

大家不会感受白日的好・

没有吃过苦不可能了 解甜・

没有流过泪・

怎会明白微笑的快乐？

我从不追求完美・

我只追求自然。

凡事顺其自然,懂得欣赏・

缺陷也是 另一种美丽。

Andy Lau - Hong Kong film and television actor

To appreciate imperfection is another kind of beauty.

Without night, we wouldn't appreciate the beauty of day.

 

Without hardship, we can't understand sweetness. 

Without tears, how can we understand the joy of a smile?

I never pursue perfection; 

I only pursue naturalness.

Let things take their natural course, learn to appreciate;

Imperfection is another kind of beauty.

诈

至古以来的买与卖，

充满了精彩的技巧，

布满五花八门的策略，

设计得天花乱坠的陷阱，

就是要来套你。。

若作家刘墉的书写着，

‘’。。可能别人已把你卖了，

你还在为那人数着钞票。。‘’

人生处处是陷阱

一不小心，就掉入泥沼

诈无不诈，处处使诈

明骗暗欺，诱入崎岖

张牙弧爪，让你难逃

防不胜防，还是要防

魔高一丈，道高一策

安稳慢步，人生道路

母亲节，mother Earth 🌎 快乐！

祝岳母之前生日和今天

母亲节快乐

愿天下的母亲们也天天快乐

也献给我爱的MotherEarth 🌍

母亲恩，我此生感激万分！！！

母亲节

祝所有厚爱❤的母亲们，

母亲节快乐，天天都快乐！

Dato Lawrence Chan, RIP 🙏

Dato Lawrence Chan 

还记得在韩江中六1998年，当时我即将面对STPM的考试，有幸我们在Tanjong 的补习老师, 为我们安排Dato Lawrence Chan 给我们激励课程，若没记错，Dato 细诉一位成功人士，因为他心中常想，在不远处，有他过世了的亲人在看着他，所以使他有力量的去完成他的比赛，而取得成功！

from a distance 那首歌就是在那课程尾端时响起，让全场轰动，把我们的血脉，热血推向高峰，使我们相信，我们可以应对STPM这挑战，而且能取得好成绩！

不久过后，Penang 市议会也邀请Dato再次给激励讲座，我那时也第二次参加这激励课程，难得这珍贵的两次缘份。

Dato Lawrence 还是我们1992年汤杯和那时双打好手谢顺吉和叶景福的激励教练。

今天得知这疆讯，自己有些难过，毕竟Dato Lawrence 是我人生其中一个很有影响力的贵人和Motivator, 感恩有您。。

祝您一路走好，安息主怀！

Dato Lawrence Chan

I remember back in Han Chiang Form Six in year 1998, facing the STPM exams, our tutor in Tanjong arranged a motivational session with Dato Lawrence Chan. If I remember correctly, Dato recounted the story of a successful person who always thought of his deceased loved ones watching over him, giving him the strength to complete his competition and achieve success!

The song "From a Distance" played at the end of that session, causing a sensation and igniting our passion and confidence that we could meet the challenge of the STPM and achieve excellent results!

Shortly after, the Penang Municipal Council invited Dato to give another motivational talk, and I attended his session for the second time. It was a rare and precious opportunity.

Dato Lawrence was also our motivational coach for the 1992 Thomas Cup and for our men doubles, Xie Shunji and Ye Jingfu.

I was saddened to hear this news today, as Dato Lawrence was one of the most influential mentors and motivators in my life. I am grateful for your presence.

May you rest in peace! 🙏

浩浩师恩讲座与读书会

4月30日浩浩师恩 忆难忘 讲座

终于荣幸参加觉培法师的讲座

好书得到法师的签名

5月1日佛光山读书会

满满法宝，带回家，运用在生活上，东二会在卫塞节前送礼物

真面目显见

‘’If you want to know who your real friends and family are, lose your job, get sick, or go through hard times."

-- Robert Downey Jr.

“如果你想知道谁才是你真正的朋友和家人，那就丢掉工作、生病或经历困境吧。”

——小罗伯特·唐尼

❤在太平湖 Love in Taiping Lake Gardens

一切都在变，

珍惜眼前人，

❤在太平湖。。

Everything is changing, cherish the love one around you, ❤ at Taiping Lake Gardens..

环保与心保

环保 - 保护地球是一份长期奋战的工作，一个超种族，跨国界的世界性运动。今日凡是＜地球村＞的成员，都有责任关心地球村的永续生存。万物在＜地球村＞里，都要建立＜同体共生＞的关系，＜同中存异，异中求同＞，彼此包容，尊重，若人体的五官，要相互共生，才能生存。

心保 - 珍惜福，珍惜缘，珍惜物，珍惜生，对一切怀感恩之心，一切我们有赖于生存的各种资源，不是得之于理所当然，不珍惜环境，不保护环境，最终将成为灾难的难民。

学佛的人，心中都有佛！

「我是佛」这一句话不但救了自己,而因为「我是佛」,你对人、对世间万物都懂得慈悲，珍惜, 这就是心灵的环保,就是抢救地球。

Honored to meet Dr Chen in Eu Yan Sang events

余仁生是家喻户晓的保健养生

的大马华企，热心公益，而且常回馈社会，感谢与荣幸参加陈医师和林医师的讲座，林医师上一次介绍过，这次介绍陈医师。

陈医师让你了解你的身体需要什么，解析气阳血阴，五脏要协调

‘’吃少，不如吃得巧‘’

还有陈氏的简单运动法，给我们现代人很有用 👍👍👍

Eu Yan Sang is a household name in health and wellness. A Malaysian Chinese enterprise, they are passionate about public welfare and frequently give back to the community. We are grateful and honored to have the opportunity to participate in the presentation by Dr. Chen and Dr. Lin. Dr. Lin was introduced last time; this time, we will introduce Dr. Chen.

Dr. Chen helps you understand your body's needs, analyzing Qi, Yang, Blood, and Yin, and the harmony of the five internal organs.

"Eating less is not as good as eating smartly." 

Dr. Chen also shares his simple exercise methods, which are very useful for modern people. 👍👍👍

Honored to meet Dr Liew VK

哇……很荣幸和我的老师刘博士，最新书Android app development with Visual Basic 2026的作者今天的下午茶相聚得真的特别愉快，阔别了30年，师生再次重聚，刘博士是我中学物理老师，也是我当年天文学学会的顾问老师。是老师当年大胆与创新的带入天文学到学校，也启发了我对天文学的爱好。。

他日若有幸愿向刘博士多多学习。老师的科学，科技，商业的专业知识是那么的滔滔不绝，源源不断，我看一个topic 都可开讲一个下午，让我感受犹如我是一台新电脑，装了很多高科技的知识，容量有点不够用。。哈哈😄

老师在科技商业领域里的精彩是以前的100倍，天天保持着一颗年轻面对挑战的心，向前看，是一位不可多得的科技带领人。

谈到以前办天文学会时，老师邀请他很多的天文发烧友，在活动上带入天文最新的科技，若望远镜等等，还有老师邀请一位航海的朋友，演说他在航过百慕大三角形地方时的经验，指南针如何受影响而摇摆不定。。

老师还记得，那时我们的天文学会创学校历史得到数一数二最高会员人数的学会，还记得在某个活动时，老师致辞时特别说别把天文学会变成探索UFO, X-files 的学会。。哈哈😄

今天是个因缘集合的特别聚会，感恩能遇见老师，愿老师身体健康常常，心情快乐满满，家庭幸福多多，和老师有缘再聚！

Wow… It was such an honor to have afternoon teatime with my teacher, Dr. Liew, the author of his latest book, *Android app development with Visual Basic 2026*. It was truly a delightful reunion after 30 years. Dr. Liew was my secondary school physics teacher and also my society advisor in the Astronomy Club. It was his bold and innovative introduction of astronomy into school that inspired my passion for the subject.

I hope to learn more from Dr. Liew someday. His expertise in science, technology, and business is so boundless and endless. He could talk about a single topic for an entire afternoon, making me feel like a new computer loaded with so much high-tech knowledge that its capacity is almost insufficient… Haha 😄

His brilliance in the fields of technology and business is 100 times greater than before. He maintains a youthful spirit, always facing challenges and looking forward. He is a rare and invaluable leader in the field of technology.

 When we talked about the days when we ran the astronomy club, our teacher would invite many astronomy enthusiasts to introduce the latest astronomical technologies, such as telescopes, to the events. He also invited a friend who was a sailor to share his experience navigating the Bermuda Triangle, explaining how compasses could be affected and become unstable.

Our teacher also remembered that our astronomy club had one of the highest membership numbers in the school's history. I recalled that during his speech at one event, he specifically said not to turn the astronomy club into a club for exploring UFOs and X-files. Haha 😄

Today is a special gathering brought together by fate. I'm grateful to have met our teacher. I wish him good health, happiness, and a blessed family. And I hope we can meet again someday!

稻田，海洋，阳光

辽阔的稻田，稻农的希望，喂饱每一个人

无际的海洋，航海员的旅途，等待靠岸后归家

恒速的阳光，滋润广阔大地，孕育每一位太阳🌞之子

爱情❤证书 love cert

＜爱情❤证书＞

从爱情一开始，就写着写着，

现在还会继续写，写我们的日常，写每一遍，我们的爱情故事，老了时，拿来回味。。😁

心爱自己的家园

很多年前，到新加坡公司接受训练，其中一天是开放日，我们有幸到Gardens by the Bay 做户外和户内活动。。

来到似温室的巨大空间里，里面有山水瀑布，花草树木，各种各样的美丽花朵都在那盛开茂盛。

来到个区域，是介绍岩石山洞，有介绍一片片的各种岩石的sample, 我立刻就在内心呐喊，来我们大马霹雳的gua tempurung 吧，这会让你大开眼界。。

隔天，回到公司训练场地的班上，我立刻和我周围来自Asia Pacific 的同伙们介绍大马的Gua Tempurung, 是那么的自然美景，别有洞天，世外桃源，会让光观客一踏足这里，会流连忘返，回味无穷。。

这里的结论是：若你自家的珍贵物品，食物，美景，若我们没有用心捍卫，努力保护，大力推广，这会渐渐的变成其他人的物品，食物，美景，请保护我们的国家，心爱我们的家园！

Many years ago, I went to Singapore for training. One day was an open day, and we had the opportunity to participate in outdoor and indoor activities at the Gardens by the Bay.

We arrived at a huge, greenhouse-like space with waterfalls, streams, trees, and all sorts of beautiful flowers in full bloom.

We came across an area showcasing rock formations and caves, with samples of various rock formations. I immediately thought to myself, "Come to Gua Tempurung in Perak, Malaysia! It will truly open your eyes!"

The next day, back at the company training ground, I immediately described Gua Tempurung in Malaysia to my colleagues from all around Asia Pacific. It was such a natural wonder, a hidden paradise, a secluded haven that visitors would linger, wanting to return forever.

 The conclusion here is: if we do not carefully defend and protect，promote our own precious possessions, food, and beautiful scenery, they will gradually become the possessions, food, and beautiful scenery of others. Please protect our country and cherish our home!

话说在前，提前预言

＜话说在前，提早预言＞

若Zii Jia 在2026 Thomas Cup 的第三单打有助大马团队赢得汤杯，就表示一切因缘注定，从奥运铜牌过后，他受伤，失望，排名坠落，无数次的一轮游，到出任2026年汤杯打第三单打，一切都是最好的安排，助大马再圆汤杯梦！

<A Predicted Foreword>

If Zii Jia's third singles role in the 2026 Thomas Cup helps the Malaysian team win the Thomas Cup, it means everything was preordained. From his Olympic bronze medal, through injury, disappointment, a drop in rankings, and countless first-round exits, to his appointment as the third singles player in the 2026 Thomas Cup, everything has been the best arrangement, helping Malaysia realize its Thomas Cup dream again!

偶然还是被设定？

人类有3个重要的苹果🍎

第一颗是阿当吃的那一颗

第二颗是牛顿看见从树上坠落的那颗

第三颗是Steve Jobs 的苹果品牌

牛顿看着，就发现万有引力

说引力是产生于两个物质之间

这理论对低质量和低速度的物体测得完美无缺，但测量水星绕太阳的轨道就有所偏差。。

两百多年后，在专利局就职的爱因斯坦，在1905年提出狭义相对论：E = mc² 质量和能量其实是可以互相转换的！也就是说：物质可以变成能量，能量也可以变成物质。

而在1916年他再提出广义相对论，解析引力不是一种“拉力”，而是“时空的弯曲”所产生的效果。质量和能量会让“时空”弯曲，而物体只是沿着弯曲的时空运动。

这更推测出宇宙间超级重物质而让其周围的空间都被扭曲，连光也无法逃脱，这就是黑洞的存在。这更探索到黑洞与白洞的连接桥梁，称Einstein–Rosen Bridge（爱因斯坦–罗森桥），更常见的名字是： “虫洞（Wormhole）” 的时光隧道。

物质从黑洞吸入，从白洞吐出。。的时空之旅。

理论上是存在的，事实和其可行性有待实验去证明。。

也有科学家提出（big bang ）大爆炸就是白洞吐出所有的能量，经历138亿年之后的演变造就了探索人和其居住的地球🌍。

这一切是多么的美，因缘聚集足够，各种条件聚会，形成今天看见的一切，就是那么的独特，唯美。。

Humanity has three important apples 🍎

The first is the one Adam ate.

The second is the one Newton saw fall from the tree.

The third is the Apple brand founded by Steve Jobs.

Newton observed it and discovered universal gravitation.

He stated that gravity arises between two objects.

This theory worked perfectly for objects with low mass and low speed, but it was flawed when measuring Mercury's orbit around the sun.

More than two hundred years later, Einstein, working at the patent office, proposed the special theory of relativity in 1905: E = mc². Mass and energy are actually interconvertible! That is, matter can be converted into energy, and energy can be converted into matter.

In 1916, he proposed the general theory of relativity, explaining that gravity is not a "pulling force," but rather an effect produced by the "curvature of spacetime." Mass and energy cause spacetime to curve, and objects simply move along this curved spacetime.

This further suggests that super-heavy matter in the universe distorts the space around it, preventing even light from escaping—this is the existence of black holes. This further explores the connection between black holes and white holes, known as the Einstein-Rosen Bridge, or more commonly, a "wormhole"—a time tunnel.

Matter is drawn in by black holes and expelled by white holes... a journey through spacetime.

Theoretically, this exists; however, its feasibility and reality await experimental verification.

Some scientists have also proposed that the Big Bang was caused by a white hole releasing all its energy, which, after 13.8 billion years of evolution, created humans and the Earth we inhabit.

How beautiful all of this is! Sufficient conditions and a convergence of circumstances have shaped everything we see today—it's so unique and beautiful.

小孩不笨

This phenomenon has indeed been studied in child psychology.

<When a group of children are playing individually, you might notice a particular child who is particularly good at attracting other children to play with him, or who can create games for everyone to play together. Will this child be exceptionally talented when he grows up?>

This child has "potential," but that doesn't mean he will "definitely be exceptional when he grows up."

The key lies in: the environment he receives and whether these abilities are continuously developed.

 This child possesses social leadership:

1) Proactively approaches others

2) Organizes group activities

3) Gets others to follow

In psychology, this is considered an early form of leadership behavior, similar to what might develop into:

Team leader

Manager

Entrepreneur

He also has charisma/society

This type of child typically:

Expresses themselves naturally

Importantly makes others feel comfortable

He is creative

"He can create games"

This is important, representing:

Strong imagination

Ability to establish rules

The ability to make the "boring" interesting

These abilities are common later in life in:

Entrepreneurship

Product design

Education

Content creation

He has initiative

Instead of waiting for others to come to him, he:

Actively creates opportunities

In psychology, this is called:

intrinsic motivation

He is not "already great," but "has the seed to become great."

在儿童心理学里确实有研究过的现象。。

＜一群孩童分散的各自玩耍

会发现某小孩特别会吸引其他小孩和他一起玩，或他会创造游戏让大伙儿一起玩，这某孩子长大后会特别厉害吗？＞

这种孩子“有潜力”，但不等于“长大一定很厉害”

关键在于：后天环境 + 是否持续发展这些能力。

这某小孩有社交领导力

（Social Leadership）

1）主动接近别人

2）组织大家一起玩

3）让别人愿意跟随

这在心理学里属于早期领导行为的雏形，类似于未来可能发展成：

团队领导者

管理者

创业者

他还有社交吸引力

（Charisma / Sociability）

这种孩子通常：

表达自然

情绪开放

容易让别人感到舒服

他附有创造力（Creativity）

“他会创造游戏”

这很重要，代表：

想象力强

有规则建立能力

能把“无聊变有趣”

这类能力在长大后很常见于：

创业

产品设计

教育工作

内容创作

他有主动性（Initiative）

不是等别人来找他，而是：

 他主动创造机会

在心理学里，这叫：

内在驱动力（intrinsic motivation）

他不是“已经厉害”，而是“有成为厉害的种子”

老婆，生日快乐🎂

老婆，生日快乐🎂

一起快乐过每一天，一起到老！

daydreaming ● 钓灵感

"When you sit with a nice girl for two hours, you think it's only a minute. 

But when you sit on a hot stove for a minute, you think it's two hours. 

--- That's relativity!" Einstein explained 

When a person seat in front of 

TV drama for 2 hours, he or she feels like nothing in the end; 

if for me to see TV drama for 2 minutes, I felt very uncomfortable, like I was wasting my time...

I rather doing daydreaming to catch inspiration, thinking n writing something to full use my mind, in order to make sure my brain is 'workable' all the time...haha 😄 

“当你和一个漂亮的女孩坐在一起两个小时时，你会觉得只过了一分钟；

但当你在滚烫的炉子上坐一分钟时，却感觉像过了两个小时。

——这就是相对论！”这是爱因斯坦的解释。

当一个人坐在电视机前看电视剧两个小时，最后会觉得好像什么都没发生一样；

但如果让我看电视剧两分钟，我就会觉得很不舒服，好像在浪费时间……

我反而更愿意发发白日梦来获取些灵感，思考并写下一些东西，充分运用我的大脑，确保它一直保持“运作”的状态……哈哈 😄

觉培法师KLCC演说和新书签名会

觉培法师

第一次认识觉培法师，是在＜星云传承＞，＜佛教靠我＞的两张DVD中，法师是星云大师的弟子。

法师警戒的说世界上的佛教徒越来越少，递减，有危机感，认为佛教没有被人们真正的认识，没有得到广大的推广，大家都还做得不够。。

随着星云大师＜给＞的发愿，法师也极力推荐＜给＞的力量，为佛教做出最大的付出。

这是一本2025年6月出版的新书＜浩浩师恩 - 星云大师的慈悲与愿行＞，从觉培法师细说中了解到星云大师的【不忍众生苦】的慈悲和提倡的人间佛教。

我是在2024年5月1日的东禅寺读书会见证觉培法师对人间佛教，研究经文中是如此的认真，追求真理的意愿是如此的强烈与坚定，是读书会的好导师。

今天的KLCC 书展，有觉培法师的演讲和新书签名会，可惜我因工作在身，无法出席。在此为法师打个广告，请大家多多支持这本好书！

Venerable Jue Pei

My first encounter with Venerable Jue Pei was through two DVDs, “Xing Yun’s Legacy” and “Buddhism Relies on Me.” Venerable Jue Pei is a disciple of Venerable Master Hsing Yun.

The Venerable has cautioned that the number of Buddhists in the world is decreasing, which brings a sense of crisis. He believes that Buddhism has not been truly understood by people, nor has it been widely promoted, and that we have all not done enough.

Following Venerable Master Hsing Yun’s aspiration of “giving,” Venerable Jue Pei strongly advocates the power of giving and strives to contribute as much as possible to Buddhism.

This is a new book published in June 2025, “The Vast Grace of the Master – The Compassion and Vows of Venerable Master Hsing Yun.” Through Venerable Jue Pei’s detailed narration, readers can better understand Venerable Master Hsing Yun’s compassion of “not bearing to see sentient beings suffer” and his advocacy of Humanistic Buddhism.

On May 1, 2024, at the Dong Zen Temple reading group, I witnessed Venerable Jue Pei’s dedication to Humanistic Buddhism and the study of scriptures. Her pursuit of truth is remarkably strong and steadfast, making her an excellent mentor in the reading group.

Today, at the KLCC Book Fair, there was a talk by Venerable Jue Pei along with a book signing session. Due to work commitments, I am unable to attend. I would like to take this opportunity to help promote it—please support this wonderful book!

如何才算是成功的人生？

＜如何才算是成功的人生?＞

我问AI, 它回答如下。。

这是一个很深、但也很真实的问题。其实，“成功的人生”没有唯一标准，它更多取决于你真正重视什么。不过，我们可以从几个角度来看，让你更清晰：

---

🌱 一、内心层面：你是否活得安心、自在

很多人外在看起来成功，但内心焦虑、空虚。

真正的成功，往往是：

心里踏实，不常后悔

面对得失比较平衡

知道自己为什么而活

就像佛教里说的“知足常乐”，不是没有追求，而是不被欲望绑架。

---

💡 二、成长层面：你有没有变得更好

成功不只是结果，而是过程：

是否比过去更成熟、更有智慧

是否能处理情绪、人际关系

是否持续学习、进步

一个不断进步的人，本身就在成功的路上。

---

❤️ 三、关系层面：你与人的连接

人生很大一部分价值，其实来自关系：

有真心的家人、朋友

能给予别人帮助、温暖

被信任、被需要

很多人在生命后期回头看，最珍贵的不是钱，而是人与人的情感。

---

🏆 四、世俗层面：成就与贡献

当然，现实世界也有它的衡量标准：

事业、财富、地位

对社会的贡献

实现自己的目标

但关键是：

👉 这些是否是你自己想要的，还是别人定义的？

---

🧘 五、意义层面：你是否活出“意义”

这是更深一层：

你是否觉得自己的人生有意义

是否做过对他人、社会有益的事

是否活得对得起自己内心

有些人简单生活、做义工、布施，却活得非常充实，这也是一种很高层次的成功。

---

🌟 总结一句话

成功的人生 = 活得清醒 + 持续成长 + 有爱与连接 + 做自己认为有意义的事

... ...

我只是知道，人生不会得完美，得到这个，或许就会失去那个，从个人成长与健康，家庭和谐安乐，财富自由与自在，社会地位与奉献，到生活意义的追求与实现，这一切，可否追得到个完美？

文和图，借分享。。

戏水合照

冒着手机掉进泳池的风险

来拍一张和老婆的戏水合照

游泳可放松，互动可松弛一下。。

Happy Gethering 同事生日聚餐

Happi Bday to 2 Gentlemen,

May your life full with joys n happiness 😊

缘到一束光

随缘如读书，

翻开到那一页，就读那一页。

我投缘于佛光山，是其

＜人间佛教＞的教义，让我

一接触，就仿佛受同频共振，

可以互相互动，大家眼与眼对

望时，都会互相点一点头，道声：“吉祥”，这使大家可以广

结善缘，互相帮忙，互相合作，实现“集体创作”的理念和实现目标。

若有什么大型的活动，更需要很多人手的帮忙，每位的岗位都是那么的重要，若骨牌效应，拿走其中一个，这效应就无法完整的实现。义工为什么会被称为义工菩萨，是因为牺牲自己的时间，来专注这个项目，不辞劳苦，很有热忱的把它完成，例如春节美丽的花灯展览，义工菩萨们更是牺牲家人团聚，欢乐的时间，来这里大家‘’集体创作‘’的把这展览圆满的办成。

佛光山很注重教育，很鼓励大人小孩们读书，求知识，以得智慧启发。常常推广学习，投资自己的脑袋，鼓励热心奉献，呈现“给”的力量，付出利他的好善因，帮助别人的同时也提升自己。佛光山常鼓励有缘人节俭和不浪费，展览过的物品，通常都会再循环，再使用，把花费减到最低。佛光山更提倡环保，爱护地球。Veg Run 就是很实在的一个例子。

佛光山的理念会让人变得自动自发，使人变得很勤奋，很有上进心，向目标前进，不轻易向困难低头，会坚强的一一克服一切困难，至最终把理想实现！

愿有缘人，欢迎光临，有幸的结个缘，愿美好常伴你。。

师父的启发

师父的启发

星云大师没有受过正统教育，凭着自修自学，一共写了395本著作，看着这多渺小的我，读了很多书，受正统的教育，却没有出版过自己的第一本书，真愧疚。。

师父的心胸宽阔，常提倡跨越宗教的概念，以其他宗教一起的维护世界和平，和谐共生。

要＜世界和平＞，要付出于真挚的行动，一起推动，世界才有望达到真正的和平，无战争。

星云大师提倡“地球人”理念，教导信徒超越种族、国籍与宗教的狭隘界限，以地球为家，建立“共生共荣”的国际观与普世胸怀。这是一种将爱与慈悲扩展至全人类及所有众生的思想，主张做人要心胸开阔，不仅为自己，也为地球的福祉奉献，即所谓的“地球人”。