This phenomenon has indeed been studied in child psychology.
<When a group of children are playing individually, you might notice a particular child who is particularly good at attracting other children to play with him, or who can create games for everyone to play together. Will this child be exceptionally talented when he grows up?>
This child has "potential," but that doesn't mean he will "definitely be exceptional when he grows up."
The key lies in: the environment he receives and whether these abilities are continuously developed.
This child possesses social leadership:
1) Proactively approaches others
2) Organizes group activities
3) Gets others to follow
In psychology, this is considered an early form of leadership behavior, similar to what might develop into:
Team leader
Manager
Entrepreneur
He also has charisma/society
This type of child typically:
Expresses themselves naturally
Importantly makes others feel comfortable
He is creative
"He can create games"
This is important, representing:
Strong imagination
Ability to establish rules
The ability to make the "boring" interesting
These abilities are common later in life in:
Entrepreneurship
Product design
Education
Content creation
He has initiative
Instead of waiting for others to come to him, he:
Actively creates opportunities
In psychology, this is called:
intrinsic motivation
He is not "already great," but "has the seed to become great."
在儿童心理学里确实有研究过的现象。。
＜一群孩童分散的各自玩耍
会发现某小孩特别会吸引其他小孩和他一起玩，或他会创造游戏让大伙儿一起玩，这某孩子长大后会特别厉害吗？＞
这种孩子“有潜力”，但不等于“长大一定很厉害”
关键在于：后天环境 + 是否持续发展这些能力。
这某小孩有社交领导力
（Social Leadership）
1）主动接近别人
2）组织大家一起玩
3）让别人愿意跟随
这在心理学里属于早期领导行为的雏形，类似于未来可能发展成：
团队领导者
管理者
创业者
他还有社交吸引力
（Charisma / Sociability）
这种孩子通常：
表达自然
情绪开放
容易让别人感到舒服
他附有创造力（Creativity）
“他会创造游戏”
这很重要，代表：
想象力强
有规则建立能力
能把“无聊变有趣”
这类能力在长大后很常见于：
创业
产品设计
教育工作
内容创作
他有主动性（Initiative）
不是等别人来找他，而是：
他主动创造机会
在心理学里，这叫：
内在驱动力（intrinsic motivation）
他不是“已经厉害”，而是“有成为厉害的种子”
