Dato Lawrence Chan, RIP 🙏

Dato Lawrence Chan 

还记得在韩江中六1998年，当时我即将面对STPM的考试，有幸我们在Tanjong 的补习老师, 为我们安排Dato Lawrence Chan 给我们激励课程，若没记错，Dato 细诉一位成功人士，因为他心中常想，在不远处，有他过世了的亲人在看着他，所以使他有力量的去完成他的比赛，而取得成功！

from a distance 那首歌就是在那课程尾端时响起，让全场轰动，把我们的血脉，热血推向高峰，使我们相信，我们可以应对STPM这挑战，而且能取得好成绩！

不久过后，Penang 市议会也邀请Dato再次给激励讲座，我那时也第二次参加这激励课程，难得这珍贵的两次缘份。

Dato Lawrence 还是我们1992年汤杯和那时双打好手谢顺吉和叶景福的激励教练。

今天得知这疆讯，自己有些难过，毕竟Dato Lawrence 是我人生其中一个很有影响力的贵人和Motivator, 感恩有您。。

祝您一路走好，安息主怀！

Dato Lawrence Chan

I remember back in Han Chiang Form Six in year 1998, facing the STPM exams, our tutor in Tanjong arranged a motivational session with Dato Lawrence Chan. If I remember correctly, Dato recounted the story of a successful person who always thought of his deceased loved ones watching over him, giving him the strength to complete his competition and achieve success!

The song "From a Distance" played at the end of that session, causing a sensation and igniting our passion and confidence that we could meet the challenge of the STPM and achieve excellent results!

Shortly after, the Penang Municipal Council invited Dato to give another motivational talk, and I attended his session for the second time. It was a rare and precious opportunity.

Dato Lawrence was also our motivational coach for the 1992 Thomas Cup and for our men doubles, Xie Shunji and Ye Jingfu.

I was saddened to hear this news today, as Dato Lawrence was one of the most influential mentors and motivators in my life. I am grateful for your presence.

May you rest in peace! 🙏

浩浩师恩讲座与读书会

4月30日浩浩师恩 忆难忘 讲座

终于荣幸参加觉培法师的讲座

好书得到法师的签名

5月1日佛光山读书会

满满法宝，带回家，运用在生活上，东二会在卫塞节前送礼物

真面目显见

‘’If you want to know who your real friends and family are, lose your job, get sick, or go through hard times."

-- Robert Downey Jr.

“如果你想知道谁才是你真正的朋友和家人，那就丢掉工作、生病或经历困境吧。”

——小罗伯特·唐尼

❤在太平湖 Love in Taiping Lake Gardens

一切都在变，

珍惜眼前人，

❤在太平湖。。

Everything is changing, cherish the love one around you, ❤ at Taiping Lake Gardens..

环保与心保

环保 - 保护地球是一份长期奋战的工作，一个超种族，跨国界的世界性运动。今日凡是＜地球村＞的成员，都有责任关心地球村的永续生存。万物在＜地球村＞里，都要建立＜同体共生＞的关系，＜同中存异，异中求同＞，彼此包容，尊重，若人体的五官，要相互共生，才能生存。

心保 - 珍惜福，珍惜缘，珍惜物，珍惜生，对一切怀感恩之心，一切我们有赖于生存的各种资源，不是得之于理所当然，不珍惜环境，不保护环境，最终将成为灾难的难民。

学佛的人，心中都有佛！

「我是佛」这一句话不但救了自己,而因为「我是佛」,你对人、对世间万物都懂得慈悲，珍惜, 这就是心灵的环保,就是抢救地球。

Honored to meet Dr Chen in Eu Yan Sang events

余仁生是家喻户晓的保健养生

的大马华企，热心公益，而且常回馈社会，感谢与荣幸参加陈医师和林医师的讲座，林医师上一次介绍过，这次介绍陈医师。

陈医师让你了解你的身体需要什么，解析气阳血阴，五脏要协调

‘’吃少，不如吃得巧‘’

还有陈氏的简单运动法，给我们现代人很有用 👍👍👍

Eu Yan Sang is a household name in health and wellness. A Malaysian Chinese enterprise, they are passionate about public welfare and frequently give back to the community. We are grateful and honored to have the opportunity to participate in the presentation by Dr. Chen and Dr. Lin. Dr. Lin was introduced last time; this time, we will introduce Dr. Chen.

Dr. Chen helps you understand your body's needs, analyzing Qi, Yang, Blood, and Yin, and the harmony of the five internal organs.

"Eating less is not as good as eating smartly." 

Dr. Chen also shares his simple exercise methods, which are very useful for modern people. 👍👍👍

Honored to meet Dr Liew VK

哇……很荣幸和我的老师刘博士，最新书Android app development with Visual Basic 2026的作者今天的下午茶相聚得真的特别愉快，阔别了30年，师生再次重聚，刘博士是我中学物理老师，也是我当年天文学学会的顾问老师。是老师当年大胆与创新的带入天文学到学校，也启发了我对天文学的爱好。。

他日若有幸愿向刘博士多多学习。老师的科学，科技，商业的专业知识是那么的滔滔不绝，源源不断，我看一个topic 都可开讲一个下午，让我感受犹如我是一台新电脑，装了很多高科技的知识，容量有点不够用。。哈哈😄

老师在科技商业领域里的精彩是以前的100倍，天天保持着一颗年轻面对挑战的心，向前看，是一位不可多得的科技带领人。

谈到以前办天文学会时，老师邀请他很多的天文发烧友，在活动上带入天文最新的科技，若望远镜等等，还有老师邀请一位航海的朋友，演说他在航过百慕大三角形地方时的经验，指南针如何受影响而摇摆不定。。

老师还记得，那时我们的天文学会创学校历史得到数一数二最高会员人数的学会，还记得在某个活动时，老师致辞时特别说别把天文学会变成探索UFO, X-files 的学会。。哈哈😄

今天是个因缘集合的特别聚会，感恩能遇见老师，愿老师身体健康常常，心情快乐满满，家庭幸福多多，和老师有缘再聚！

Wow… It was such an honor to have afternoon teatime with my teacher, Dr. Liew, the author of his latest book, *Android app development with Visual Basic 2026*. It was truly a delightful reunion after 30 years. Dr. Liew was my secondary school physics teacher and also my society advisor in the Astronomy Club. It was his bold and innovative introduction of astronomy into school that inspired my passion for the subject.

I hope to learn more from Dr. Liew someday. His expertise in science, technology, and business is so boundless and endless. He could talk about a single topic for an entire afternoon, making me feel like a new computer loaded with so much high-tech knowledge that its capacity is almost insufficient… Haha 😄

His brilliance in the fields of technology and business is 100 times greater than before. He maintains a youthful spirit, always facing challenges and looking forward. He is a rare and invaluable leader in the field of technology.

 When we talked about the days when we ran the astronomy club, our teacher would invite many astronomy enthusiasts to introduce the latest astronomical technologies, such as telescopes, to the events. He also invited a friend who was a sailor to share his experience navigating the Bermuda Triangle, explaining how compasses could be affected and become unstable.

Our teacher also remembered that our astronomy club had one of the highest membership numbers in the school's history. I recalled that during his speech at one event, he specifically said not to turn the astronomy club into a club for exploring UFOs and X-files. Haha 😄

Today is a special gathering brought together by fate. I'm grateful to have met our teacher. I wish him good health, happiness, and a blessed family. And I hope we can meet again someday!

稻田，海洋，阳光

辽阔的稻田，稻农的希望，喂饱每一个人

无际的海洋，航海员的旅途，等待靠岸后归家

恒速的阳光，滋润广阔大地，孕育每一位太阳🌞之子

爱情❤证书 love cert

＜爱情❤证书＞

从爱情一开始，就写着写着，

现在还会继续写，写我们的日常，写每一遍，我们的爱情故事，老了时，拿来回味。。😁

心爱自己的家园

很多年前，到新加坡公司接受训练，其中一天是开放日，我们有幸到Gardens by the Bay 做户外和户内活动。。

来到似温室的巨大空间里，里面有山水瀑布，花草树木，各种各样的美丽花朵都在那盛开茂盛。

来到个区域，是介绍岩石山洞，有介绍一片片的各种岩石的sample, 我立刻就在内心呐喊，来我们大马霹雳的gua tempurung 吧，这会让你大开眼界。。

隔天，回到公司训练场地的班上，我立刻和我周围来自Asia Pacific 的同伙们介绍大马的Gua Tempurung, 是那么的自然美景，别有洞天，世外桃源，会让光观客一踏足这里，会流连忘返，回味无穷。。

这里的结论是：若你自家的珍贵物品，食物，美景，若我们没有用心捍卫，努力保护，大力推广，这会渐渐的变成其他人的物品，食物，美景，请保护我们的国家，心爱我们的家园！

Many years ago, I went to Singapore for training. One day was an open day, and we had the opportunity to participate in outdoor and indoor activities at the Gardens by the Bay.

We arrived at a huge, greenhouse-like space with waterfalls, streams, trees, and all sorts of beautiful flowers in full bloom.

We came across an area showcasing rock formations and caves, with samples of various rock formations. I immediately thought to myself, "Come to Gua Tempurung in Perak, Malaysia! It will truly open your eyes!"

The next day, back at the company training ground, I immediately described Gua Tempurung in Malaysia to my colleagues from all around Asia Pacific. It was such a natural wonder, a hidden paradise, a secluded haven that visitors would linger, wanting to return forever.

 The conclusion here is: if we do not carefully defend and protect，promote our own precious possessions, food, and beautiful scenery, they will gradually become the possessions, food, and beautiful scenery of others. Please protect our country and cherish our home!

话说在前，提前预言

＜话说在前，提早预言＞

若Zii Jia 在2026 Thomas Cup 的第三单打有助大马团队赢得汤杯，就表示一切因缘注定，从奥运铜牌过后，他受伤，失望，排名坠落，无数次的一轮游，到出任2026年汤杯打第三单打，一切都是最好的安排，助大马再圆汤杯梦！

<A Predicted Foreword>

If Zii Jia's third singles role in the 2026 Thomas Cup helps the Malaysian team win the Thomas Cup, it means everything was preordained. From his Olympic bronze medal, through injury, disappointment, a drop in rankings, and countless first-round exits, to his appointment as the third singles player in the 2026 Thomas Cup, everything has been the best arrangement, helping Malaysia realize its Thomas Cup dream again!

偶然还是被设定？

人类有3个重要的苹果🍎

第一颗是阿当吃的那一颗

第二颗是牛顿看见从树上坠落的那颗

第三颗是Steve Jobs 的苹果品牌

牛顿看着，就发现万有引力

说引力是产生于两个物质之间

这理论对低质量和低速度的物体测得完美无缺，但测量水星绕太阳的轨道就有所偏差。。

两百多年后，在专利局就职的爱因斯坦，在1905年提出狭义相对论：E = mc² 质量和能量其实是可以互相转换的！也就是说：物质可以变成能量，能量也可以变成物质。

而在1916年他再提出广义相对论，解析引力不是一种“拉力”，而是“时空的弯曲”所产生的效果。质量和能量会让“时空”弯曲，而物体只是沿着弯曲的时空运动。

这更推测出宇宙间超级重物质而让其周围的空间都被扭曲，连光也无法逃脱，这就是黑洞的存在。这更探索到黑洞与白洞的连接桥梁，称Einstein–Rosen Bridge（爱因斯坦–罗森桥），更常见的名字是： “虫洞（Wormhole）” 的时光隧道。

物质从黑洞吸入，从白洞吐出。。的时空之旅。

理论上是存在的，事实和其可行性有待实验去证明。。

也有科学家提出（big bang ）大爆炸就是白洞吐出所有的能量，经历138亿年之后的演变造就了探索人和其居住的地球🌍。

这一切是多么的美，因缘聚集足够，各种条件聚会，形成今天看见的一切，就是那么的独特，唯美。。

Humanity has three important apples 🍎

The first is the one Adam ate.

The second is the one Newton saw fall from the tree.

The third is the Apple brand founded by Steve Jobs.

Newton observed it and discovered universal gravitation.

He stated that gravity arises between two objects.

This theory worked perfectly for objects with low mass and low speed, but it was flawed when measuring Mercury's orbit around the sun.

More than two hundred years later, Einstein, working at the patent office, proposed the special theory of relativity in 1905: E = mc². Mass and energy are actually interconvertible! That is, matter can be converted into energy, and energy can be converted into matter.

In 1916, he proposed the general theory of relativity, explaining that gravity is not a "pulling force," but rather an effect produced by the "curvature of spacetime." Mass and energy cause spacetime to curve, and objects simply move along this curved spacetime.

This further suggests that super-heavy matter in the universe distorts the space around it, preventing even light from escaping—this is the existence of black holes. This further explores the connection between black holes and white holes, known as the Einstein-Rosen Bridge, or more commonly, a "wormhole"—a time tunnel.

Matter is drawn in by black holes and expelled by white holes... a journey through spacetime.

Theoretically, this exists; however, its feasibility and reality await experimental verification.

Some scientists have also proposed that the Big Bang was caused by a white hole releasing all its energy, which, after 13.8 billion years of evolution, created humans and the Earth we inhabit.

How beautiful all of this is! Sufficient conditions and a convergence of circumstances have shaped everything we see today—it's so unique and beautiful.

小孩不笨

This phenomenon has indeed been studied in child psychology.

<When a group of children are playing individually, you might notice a particular child who is particularly good at attracting other children to play with him, or who can create games for everyone to play together. Will this child be exceptionally talented when he grows up?>

This child has "potential," but that doesn't mean he will "definitely be exceptional when he grows up."

The key lies in: the environment he receives and whether these abilities are continuously developed.

 This child possesses social leadership:

1) Proactively approaches others

2) Organizes group activities

3) Gets others to follow

In psychology, this is considered an early form of leadership behavior, similar to what might develop into:

Team leader

Manager

Entrepreneur

He also has charisma/society

This type of child typically:

Expresses themselves naturally

Importantly makes others feel comfortable

He is creative

"He can create games"

This is important, representing:

Strong imagination

Ability to establish rules

The ability to make the "boring" interesting

These abilities are common later in life in:

Entrepreneurship

Product design

Education

Content creation

He has initiative

Instead of waiting for others to come to him, he:

Actively creates opportunities

In psychology, this is called:

intrinsic motivation

He is not "already great," but "has the seed to become great."

在儿童心理学里确实有研究过的现象。。

＜一群孩童分散的各自玩耍

会发现某小孩特别会吸引其他小孩和他一起玩，或他会创造游戏让大伙儿一起玩，这某孩子长大后会特别厉害吗？＞

这种孩子“有潜力”，但不等于“长大一定很厉害”

关键在于：后天环境 + 是否持续发展这些能力。

这某小孩有社交领导力

（Social Leadership）

1）主动接近别人

2）组织大家一起玩

3）让别人愿意跟随

这在心理学里属于早期领导行为的雏形，类似于未来可能发展成：

团队领导者

管理者

创业者

他还有社交吸引力

（Charisma / Sociability）

这种孩子通常：

表达自然

情绪开放

容易让别人感到舒服

他附有创造力（Creativity）

“他会创造游戏”

这很重要，代表：

想象力强

有规则建立能力

能把“无聊变有趣”

这类能力在长大后很常见于：

创业

产品设计

教育工作

内容创作

他有主动性（Initiative）

不是等别人来找他，而是：

 他主动创造机会

在心理学里，这叫：

内在驱动力（intrinsic motivation）

他不是“已经厉害”，而是“有成为厉害的种子”

老婆，生日快乐🎂

老婆，生日快乐🎂

一起快乐过每一天，一起到老！

daydreaming ● 钓灵感

"When you sit with a nice girl for two hours, you think it's only a minute. 

But when you sit on a hot stove for a minute, you think it's two hours. 

--- That's relativity!" Einstein explained 

When a person seat in front of 

TV drama for 2 hours, he or she feels like nothing in the end; 

if for me to see TV drama for 2 minutes, I felt very uncomfortable, like I was wasting my time...

I rather doing daydreaming to catch inspiration, thinking n writing something to full use my mind, in order to make sure my brain is 'workable' all the time...haha 😄 

“当你和一个漂亮的女孩坐在一起两个小时时，你会觉得只过了一分钟；

但当你在滚烫的炉子上坐一分钟时，却感觉像过了两个小时。

——这就是相对论！”这是爱因斯坦的解释。

当一个人坐在电视机前看电视剧两个小时，最后会觉得好像什么都没发生一样；

但如果让我看电视剧两分钟，我就会觉得很不舒服，好像在浪费时间……

我反而更愿意发发白日梦来获取些灵感，思考并写下一些东西，充分运用我的大脑，确保它一直保持“运作”的状态……哈哈 😄

觉培法师KLCC演说和新书签名会

觉培法师

第一次认识觉培法师，是在＜星云传承＞，＜佛教靠我＞的两张DVD中，法师是星云大师的弟子。

法师警戒的说世界上的佛教徒越来越少，递减，有危机感，认为佛教没有被人们真正的认识，没有得到广大的推广，大家都还做得不够。。

随着星云大师＜给＞的发愿，法师也极力推荐＜给＞的力量，为佛教做出最大的付出。

这是一本2025年6月出版的新书＜浩浩师恩 - 星云大师的慈悲与愿行＞，从觉培法师细说中了解到星云大师的【不忍众生苦】的慈悲和提倡的人间佛教。

我是在2024年5月1日的东禅寺读书会见证觉培法师对人间佛教，研究经文中是如此的认真，追求真理的意愿是如此的强烈与坚定，是读书会的好导师。

今天的KLCC 书展，有觉培法师的演讲和新书签名会，可惜我因工作在身，无法出席。在此为法师打个广告，请大家多多支持这本好书！

Venerable Jue Pei

My first encounter with Venerable Jue Pei was through two DVDs, “Xing Yun’s Legacy” and “Buddhism Relies on Me.” Venerable Jue Pei is a disciple of Venerable Master Hsing Yun.

The Venerable has cautioned that the number of Buddhists in the world is decreasing, which brings a sense of crisis. He believes that Buddhism has not been truly understood by people, nor has it been widely promoted, and that we have all not done enough.

Following Venerable Master Hsing Yun’s aspiration of “giving,” Venerable Jue Pei strongly advocates the power of giving and strives to contribute as much as possible to Buddhism.

This is a new book published in June 2025, “The Vast Grace of the Master – The Compassion and Vows of Venerable Master Hsing Yun.” Through Venerable Jue Pei’s detailed narration, readers can better understand Venerable Master Hsing Yun’s compassion of “not bearing to see sentient beings suffer” and his advocacy of Humanistic Buddhism.

On May 1, 2024, at the Dong Zen Temple reading group, I witnessed Venerable Jue Pei’s dedication to Humanistic Buddhism and the study of scriptures. Her pursuit of truth is remarkably strong and steadfast, making her an excellent mentor in the reading group.

Today, at the KLCC Book Fair, there was a talk by Venerable Jue Pei along with a book signing session. Due to work commitments, I am unable to attend. I would like to take this opportunity to help promote it—please support this wonderful book!

如何才算是成功的人生？

＜如何才算是成功的人生?＞

我问AI, 它回答如下。。

这是一个很深、但也很真实的问题。其实，“成功的人生”没有唯一标准，它更多取决于你真正重视什么。不过，我们可以从几个角度来看，让你更清晰：

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🌱 一、内心层面：你是否活得安心、自在

很多人外在看起来成功，但内心焦虑、空虚。

真正的成功，往往是：

心里踏实，不常后悔

面对得失比较平衡

知道自己为什么而活

就像佛教里说的“知足常乐”，不是没有追求，而是不被欲望绑架。

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💡 二、成长层面：你有没有变得更好

成功不只是结果，而是过程：

是否比过去更成熟、更有智慧

是否能处理情绪、人际关系

是否持续学习、进步

一个不断进步的人，本身就在成功的路上。

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❤️ 三、关系层面：你与人的连接

人生很大一部分价值，其实来自关系：

有真心的家人、朋友

能给予别人帮助、温暖

被信任、被需要

很多人在生命后期回头看，最珍贵的不是钱，而是人与人的情感。

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🏆 四、世俗层面：成就与贡献

当然，现实世界也有它的衡量标准：

事业、财富、地位

对社会的贡献

实现自己的目标

但关键是：

👉 这些是否是你自己想要的，还是别人定义的？

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🧘 五、意义层面：你是否活出“意义”

这是更深一层：

你是否觉得自己的人生有意义

是否做过对他人、社会有益的事

是否活得对得起自己内心

有些人简单生活、做义工、布施，却活得非常充实，这也是一种很高层次的成功。

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🌟 总结一句话

成功的人生 = 活得清醒 + 持续成长 + 有爱与连接 + 做自己认为有意义的事

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我只是知道，人生不会得完美，得到这个，或许就会失去那个，从个人成长与健康，家庭和谐安乐，财富自由与自在，社会地位与奉献，到生活意义的追求与实现，这一切，可否追得到个完美？

文和图，借分享。。

戏水合照

冒着手机掉进泳池的风险

来拍一张和老婆的戏水合照

游泳可放松，互动可松弛一下。。

Happy Gethering 同事生日聚餐

Happi Bday to 2 Gentlemen,

May your life full with joys n happiness 😊

缘到一束光

随缘如读书，

翻开到那一页，就读那一页。

我投缘于佛光山，是其

＜人间佛教＞的教义，让我

一接触，就仿佛受同频共振，

可以互相互动，大家眼与眼对

望时，都会互相点一点头，道声：“吉祥”，这使大家可以广

结善缘，互相帮忙，互相合作，实现“集体创作”的理念和实现目标。

若有什么大型的活动，更需要很多人手的帮忙，每位的岗位都是那么的重要，若骨牌效应，拿走其中一个，这效应就无法完整的实现。义工为什么会被称为义工菩萨，是因为牺牲自己的时间，来专注这个项目，不辞劳苦，很有热忱的把它完成，例如春节美丽的花灯展览，义工菩萨们更是牺牲家人团聚，欢乐的时间，来这里大家‘’集体创作‘’的把这展览圆满的办成。

佛光山很注重教育，很鼓励大人小孩们读书，求知识，以得智慧启发。常常推广学习，投资自己的脑袋，鼓励热心奉献，呈现“给”的力量，付出利他的好善因，帮助别人的同时也提升自己。佛光山常鼓励有缘人节俭和不浪费，展览过的物品，通常都会再循环，再使用，把花费减到最低。佛光山更提倡环保，爱护地球。Veg Run 就是很实在的一个例子。

佛光山的理念会让人变得自动自发，使人变得很勤奋，很有上进心，向目标前进，不轻易向困难低头，会坚强的一一克服一切困难，至最终把理想实现！

愿有缘人，欢迎光临，有幸的结个缘，愿美好常伴你。。