Monday, November 17, 2025

我的小狗 - Happy

<我的小狗🐕 - Happy >

缘份,是可遇不可求的,当一切的因缘聚足时,彼此就会相聚,当一切的因缘散了,彼此就得面对离别。。

以下是出自真心的真实写实,作者是我的外甥和他的女朋友,对一只缘来遇见的可爱小狗 - 名叫Happy, 这短暂但很珍贵的一段很感动的故事。。

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我们家一直有把吃不完的饭菜留给流浪狗的习惯,但老实说,我们都还是有点怕与流浪狗只靠得太近。

某一天,我像往常一样在厨房窗口轻轻地“啾啾啾”呼唤时,一只从未见过的小狗摇着尾巴跑了过来。它大概六个月大,不足一岁,瘦瘦小小,却充满着期待。我们随手把食物丢给它,它便开心地吃了起来。

从那天起,每一个下午,它都会准时报到。我们叫它的时候会来,不叫它时,它也会到后面轻轻吠几声,像是在说:“我来了,可以吃饭了吗?”我把这件事告诉了我的女朋友,因为她很喜欢动物。她来我家的第一件事,就是轻声呼唤那只小狗,看它会不会害怕人类。

起初,小狗的确有些戒备,但可能因为我们一直喂它,它很快就愿意靠近了。它第一次让人抚摸,就是让我的女朋友摸的。在她的鼓励下,我也试着伸手摸摸它。那一刻我才发现,狗狗原来这么的温柔、这么的可爱,也没我想象中可怕。我们很快和它建立起互相的信任感。我的女朋友就给它取了个名字叫——Happy。

刚开始我们不让它进 carpark 睡觉,可是后来发现它常常被附近的流浪狗欺负,我们心疼,就开始让它进来躲避。有时候它要上厕所,会在门口轻轻汪汪两声,像个懂事的小孩。它很乖,只在我家里失误过一次,其他时间都会自己出去解决。

就这样,日复一日,从 2024 年 5 月相遇,到 2025 年 6 月,它陪伴了我们大约一年零一个月。

今年四月份,我们发现它开始食欲不振,也没像以前那么的活泼了,便带它去看兽医。这是它第一次坐车,它乖得不得了,没有吵闹,只是需要有人坐在后座陪着它。

检查结果让我们心碎——它确诊了 tick fever。那段时间我们每天都担心它会不会撑不住,但它很勇敢,也很配合吃药,最后很感恩的,它竟然挺了过来。

其实我们之前做过很多关于狗瘟和 kutu 病的功课,有些了解狗瘟的情况,但因为当时我们还在念书,没有稳定收入,迟迟没能带它接种疫苗。等我们中学毕业,开始打工后,本打算等它完全康复,就带它去打疫苗的。。

然而某天晚上,我们发现它在一直挖嘴巴,以为只是卡着骨头,没多想。直到下个星期,我们见它又开始身体很虚弱,下巴不停的抽动,我心里,觉得很不对劲了,就再次带它去兽医做检查。

结果是我们最害怕听到的——
Happy 得了狗瘟。

一开始,它还能正常吃喝,只是后来越来越吃力。到后期嘴巴抽动得厉害,几乎张不开嘴,走路也走得不稳。我担心家人照顾不来,女朋友便把它接回自己家细心照料。到了她那边的头两天,它还能慢慢走动,但已经不能排便了。之后的每一天,Happy 的情况都在恶化。它的下半身渐渐瘫软,只能躺着,还会尿在身上,于是女朋友给它穿了尿片。

她每天用针筒喂它肉泥、喂药,早晚帮它吊水,防止脱水。最后的时期,因为它常呕吐也吃不下,她甚至在上班时利用短短一小时的休息时间赶回家喂它。Happy 一直很乖,没有吵闹,只是嘴巴紧闭,让我们为它喂食变得越来越困难。

最让我们心碎的是,它偶尔会挣扎着想站起来,可是它的身体已经不再听使唤,每次都重重倒下。我们带它回兽医复诊,医生告诉我们:狗瘟的存活率极低,十只狗中,可能只有一只撑得过去,而且那唯一能活下来的,情况会变得越来越稳定、越来越好。但 Happy 的状况却每天都在下滑。医生劝我们要做好心理准备。

医生建议我们尝试针灸辅助治疗,我们立刻带它去,甚至还约好了下一次治疗的日期。那时 Happy 身上已经开始出现褥疮,我们用尿垫帮它垫着,一边烦恼还能怎样让它更舒服一些。

可是 Happy 没能撑到下一次的针灸。

今年6 月 23 日,我女朋友下班回到家时,发现 Happy 已经静静地离开了,去了汪星当小天使。。

隔天刚好是我的休日,我就连夜的赶回来。当我摸到它渐渐僵硬的小小身躯,眼泪根本止不住。它是我第一只养的狗,我们那么的努力、那么的用心地照顾它,却没能救回它。我们一直在盼望,祈求,相信奇迹会出现。。。

女朋友在店里收到她母亲的消息时,也忍不住痛哭。她哭了好久,才鼓起勇气回家面对 Happy。一看到它,她的泪水又如决堤般落下,过去一年所有的美好且珍贵的回忆,在瞬间不断的涌现。

我们最后轻轻摸着 Happy 的头,摸着它冰凉的小爪子,替它拍下最后一张照片,然后把它带回我家安葬。我们放了往生纸,女朋友的同事还送来了往生花。我们只希望,小小的 Happy 能在汪星里永远的快乐。

短短的一年,Happy 带给了我的生活太多的改变。因为Happy ,我多了许多欢乐,让感觉些许似无聊的日子,充满和填满多多的活力和美好的感动,我再也不再害怕小动物。我第一次那么深刻地学会了什么叫<责任>。

‘’。。对不起,没有照顾好你,我的小 Happy。。‘’

我和女朋友决定,以后我们还会一起养小动物。我们永远不会忘记我们的第一只小狗——Happy。未来,我们会养一只长得和它很像的小狗,让它像是带着 Happy,继续走完 Happy 没来得及走完的路,和再养一只小黑狗陪伴着它。

‘’。。Happy,谢谢你来过我们的生命里。。‘’ 🙏


<My Little Dog 🐕 - Happy>

Fate is something you can't force. When all the conditions are right, we meet; when they're gone, we must part.

The following is a heartfelt, true story told by my nephew and his girlfriend about a lovely little dog they met by chance—named Happy. This short but precious and touching story...

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Our family has always had the habit of leaving leftover food for stray dogs, but honestly, we're still a little afraid of getting too close to them.

One day, as usual, I gently called out from the kitchen window, and a little dog I'd never seen before came wagging its tail. It was about six months old, less than a year old, thin and small, but full of anticipation. We casually tossed it some food, and it happily ate it.

From that day on, every afternoon, it would come punctually.  It comes when we call it, and even when we don't, it'll come to the back and bark softly a few times, as if saying, "I'm here, can I eat now?" I told my girlfriend about this because she loves animals. The first thing she did when she came to my house was to gently call the puppy to see if it was afraid of humans.

At first, the puppy was indeed a little wary, but perhaps because we kept feeding it, it quickly became willing to come closer. The first time it was petted was by my girlfriend. With her encouragement, I also tried reaching out to pet it. At that moment, I realized that dogs are so gentle, so cute, and not as scary as I had imagined. We quickly built a sense of trust with it. My girlfriend named it Happy.

At first, we didn't let it sleep in the carpark, but later we found that it was often bullied by the stray dogs in the neighborhood, and we felt sorry for it, so we started letting it come in to hide. Sometimes when it needs to go to the bathroom, it will bark softly twice at the door, like a well-behaved child. It's very well-behaved; it only made a mistake once in my house, and the rest of the time it would go out to relieve itself on its own.

 And so, day after day, from our first meeting in May 2024 to June 2025, it accompanied us for about a year and a month.

This April, we noticed it had lost its appetite and wasn't as lively as before, so we took it to the vet. It was its first time in a car, and it was incredibly well-behaved, not fussy at all, just needing someone to sit in the back seat with it.

The test results were heartbreaking—it was diagnosed with tick fever. During that time, we worried every day whether it would survive, but it was brave and cooperated well with taking its medication. Thankfully, it pulled through.

Actually, we had done a lot of research on canine distemper and kutu disease beforehand, and knew a bit about canine distemper, but because we were still in school at the time and didn't have a stable income, we couldn't get it vaccinated. After we graduated from high school and started working, we planned to take it for vaccination once it was fully recovered.

However, one night, we noticed it was constantly digging at its mouth. We thought it was just a bone stuck in its throat and didn't think much of it.  The following week, we noticed it was very weak again, its jaw twitching constantly. I felt something was wrong and took it to the vet again.

The result was the one we dreaded most—Happy had canine distemper.

At first, it could eat and drink normally, but it became increasingly difficult. Later, its mouth twitched so badly it could barely open its mouth, and it walked unsteadily. Worried that my family couldn't handle it, my girlfriend took it home and cared for it meticulously. For the first two days at her place, it could still walk slowly, but it couldn't defecate. Every day after that, Happy's condition worsened. Its lower body gradually became limp, and it could only lie down, urinating on itself, so my girlfriend put diapers on it.

She fed it meat puree and medication daily with a syringe, and gave it IV fluids morning and night to prevent dehydration. In the final stages, because it frequently vomited and couldn't eat, she even used her short one-hour break at work to rush home to feed it.  Happy had always been well-behaved, never making a fuss, but its mouth was always tightly shut, making it increasingly difficult for us to feed it.

What broke our hearts most was that it would occasionally struggle to stand up, but its body wouldn't obey, and it would collapse heavily each time. We took it back to the vet for a checkup, and the doctor told us that the survival rate for canine distemper is extremely low; out of ten dogs, perhaps only one will survive, and even then, the one that survives will become increasingly stable and better. But Happy's condition was deteriorating every day. The doctor advised us to prepare ourselves.

The doctor suggested we try acupuncture as an adjunct treatment, and we took it immediately, even scheduling the next appointment. By then, Happy had started to develop bedsores, and we used pee pads to support it, all the while worrying about how else to make it more comfortable.

But Happy didn't make it to the next acupuncture session.

On June 23rd of this year, when my girlfriend came home from get off work, she found that Happy had quietly passed away, gone to dog heaven to become a little angel.

 The next day happened to be my day off, so I rushed back that very night. When I touched its small, gradually stiffening body, I couldn't stop crying. It was my first dog, and we had tried so hard, cared for it so attentively, yet we couldn't save it. We kept hoping, praying, believing in a miracle...

When my girlfriend received the news from her mother at the shop, she couldn't help but cry too. She cried for a long time before mustering the courage to go home and face Happy. As soon as she saw it, her tears flowed like a burst dam, all the beautiful and precious memories of the past year flooding back in an instant.

We gently stroked Happy's head, touched its cold little paws, took one last picture of it, and then took it home for burial. We placed funeral paper money, and my girlfriend's colleague even brought flowers. We only hoped that little Happy could be happy forever in dog heaven.

In just one short year, Happy brought so many changes to my life.  Because of Happy, I've experienced so much joy. My days, which once felt somewhat dull, are now filled with vitality and wonderful emotions. I'm no longer afraid of animals. For the first time, I've truly learned the meaning of responsibility.

'I'm sorry, I didn't take good care of you, my little Happy.'

My girlfriend and I have decided that we will continue to raise pets together in the future. We will never forget our first puppy—Happy. In the future, we will raise a puppy that looks a lot like it, so that it can continue Happy's unfinished journey, and we will also raise another little black dog to accompany it.

'Happy, thank you for coming into our lives.' 🙏

Xuan

Sunday, November 16, 2025

养生不用花多多钱💰Maintaining good health doesn't have to cost a fortune 💰

养生不用花多多钱💰
Maintaining good health doesn't have to cost a fortune 💰

晒15分钟早上不过十点的太阳🌞
常接近大自然
呼吸新鲜空气
保持稳定情绪
保持开朗的心情
保持正能量,正方向
进食7分饱
保持有事情忙,忙中带乐,
偷闲,不过分的忙
多动,多运动,多步走,
少常时间坐着
有寄托,有信仰
保持微笑😊,与人人维持好关系
付出,布施
不计较得失。。
放下
断舍离

Maintaining good health doesn't have to cost a fortune 💰

Sunbathe for 15 minutes before 10 AM 🌞
Spend time in nature
Breathe fresh air
Maintain emotional stability
Maintain a cheerful mood
Maintain positive energy and a positive direction
Eat until you're 70% full
Keep yourself busy, find joy in your busyness
Take moments of leisure, but don't be overly busy
Be more active, more exercise, walk more, and sit less for long periods of time.
Have something to rely on, have faith
Keep smiling 😊, maintain good relationships with everyone
Give and practice generosity
Don't be calculating about gains and losses.
Let go
Minimize decluttering

Thursday, November 13, 2025

有大自然,有众生

保护自然就是拯救自己
Protecting nature is saving ourselves

<南京照相馆>,观后感

<南京照相馆>,观后感

实事没得改,历史骗不了。。

经历被日军侵略的国家,财富,矿产,宝库被掠夺,家园被亏灭,人民被断头颅在街头展示,苦民被无人性的对待。。

大马也被日军侵略,经历
恐怖的3年8个月,即使日军最终
投降,战后,因之前掠夺的财富,
宝藏,矿产,让他们容易的就东山再起,还被我们的前首相青睐,还提倡【向东学习】不知paiseh,下白,两个字怎样写?

反日情绪,在我们的家庭,大马社会没那么的严重,2005年,我也进了日企,感受到反日情绪的,是我和日本经理出差到北京,我们要踏的士到目的地,经理和我说好目的地,就闭嘴不言了,坐进的士里,司机第一句话问我,就是:‘’你带鬼头子来北京。。‘’,我顿时无言以对,。。。

新一代的人,可能很羡慕,总盼外国月亮比较圆,若我也不例外,旅行到法国,荷兰,德国等等,这都是之前的战争爆发者,殖民地的统治者,看见外国多么的美丽,但可否想过,这华丽的建筑美景,何尝不是由殖民地的矿产宝库来买单?

川,毕业🎓

川,祝你毕业🎓快乐,在这新的前程中,愿你前程似锦,越多挑战,你越强大,战胜每个问题,活出精彩的自己,希望你如愿成就美好的梦想,多多的得智慧启发,全程光明,健康,富足,幸福!

Chuan, first of all, I wish you a happy graduation! In this new journey, may your future be bright, may you become stronger with each challenge, overcome every problem, and live a wonderful life. I hope you achieve your beautiful dreams, gain much wisdom and inspiration, and have a bright, healthy, prosperous, and happy life!

Sunday, November 2, 2025

we only have one Earth 🌎

we only have one Earth 🌎 
我们只有一个地球🌍

佛教走向世界

佛教走向世界,
盼世界和平
愿各族和谐。。

我的快乐时代

回顾,我们的韩江中六学生时代

一副不曾打过的鼓。。

Looking back, our Han Chiang Form Sixth student days

A drum that has never been played.

UM Physics graduate

回顾,马大物理系毕业🎓期间

物理宇宙学实验室

授一次无观众的课,过过瘾

Looking back, UM Physics graduate ceremony..

Physics Cosmology Laboratory

Teaching a class without an audience is a real treat..haha

霹雳皇宫,皇家童军颁奖礼

回顾,在霹雳皇宫,皇家童军颁奖礼, 我父母也有来观礼,之后和父母拍摄的照片不见了 😭

Looking back at the King Scout Awards Ceremony at the Perak Palace,my parents did attend, but I lost my photo that took with parents in this ceremony 😭

Wednesday, October 22, 2025

真有缘。。

很有幸,真有缘
在private event 上,遇回我在Penang 韩江中六的同学,great!

the power of Giving 布施

Giving does not necessarily entail just giving money. Sometimes a few kind words on someone's behalf can allow incredible causes and conditions to materialize for him or her. It can even be a small amount of food that can provide hope for others, or the strength to turn their life around. Sometimes even a casual smile can give people a warm feeling. Therefore, the merits of giving are limitless.

布施并非只是金钱的施舍。有时,几句善言善语,就能为他人带来不可思议的因缘。即使是一小份食物,也能给人带来希望,或给予他们改变人生的力量。有时,一个不经意的微笑,也能给人带来温暖。因此,布施的功德是无量的。

自动自发

自动自发

听见有人说小孩总爱玩手机,不读书,不作作业。。而且机不离手,吃饭前,手机先吃。。

要让小孩,看到他们兴趣的事情项目,而让他们了解必须通过读书,求取知识,累积宝贵经验才能实现兴趣的事项,这就可让他们启发:‘’自动自发‘’
从此会自动自发的拿起书本读书
从此会自动自发提起笔来作作业

若我在小学三年级,课业成绩一落千丈,考全班38/50名次,人生仿佛坠入无底深渊,迷茫无比。有幸踏入四年级,有人文与环境这一科目,带我进入科学精彩,文化人文,科技应用的精彩项目,让我从此自动自发的享受学习科学的乐趣和成就感,这当中还有一位启发我的好老师,指导与指引我朝正确方向前进。。

学习就是要从“自动自发”开始,启开脑袋,摊开心扉,频率调对了,一切就会随水到渠成的筑成,若学习当中有遇到困难,回想莫忘初心是什么使你走到这一步,这会使你不会放弃,永不放弃的向前前进,把挑战且困难的事情完成,把不可能的变成可能,创造可能!

Spontaneity

I've heard people say that children always play with their phones, not reading or doing homework. They never put their phones down, even take photos before meals.

Let children see what interests them and understand that they can only fulfill their interests through reading, acquiring knowledge, and accumulating valuable experience. This will inspire them to be "spontaneous." From then on, they will spontaneously pick up a book and read. From then on, they will spontaneously pick up a pen and do their homework.

When I was in standard 3, my grades plummeted, ranking 38th out of 50 in my class. Life felt like it was plummeting into an abyss, and I was completely lost. Fortunately, in standard 4, I had the Humanities and Environment subject, which introduced me to the fascinating world of science, culture, and the application of technology. From then on, I spontaneously enjoyed the joy and sense of accomplishment of studying science. And I had an inspiring teacher who guided and directed me in the right direction.

 Learning should start from "automaticity and spontaneity", open your mind, open your heart, adjust n tune into the right frequency, and everything will be built naturally. If you encounter difficulties in learning, remember your original intention and what brought you to this step. This will make you not give up, and never give up to moving forward, complete the challenging and difficult things, turn the impossible into possible, and create the possible from impossible!

半碗咸菜

半碗咸菜

佛光山东禅寺滴水坊有一道斋饭
- 半碗咸菜饭

这道菜的由来是来自星云大师的一个故事,故事如下。。

。。。 。。。
🍲半碗鹹菜的故事🍲

每年農曆2月1日,佛光山保有吃鹹菜的傳統,這源自於佛光山開山祖師星雲大師對師父志開上人深厚的慈悲與感恩之情。

當年17歲的 星雲大師 身患瘧疾,體力極度虛弱,志開上人便遣侍者送來半碗鹹菜。在物資匱乏的年代,這碗鹹菜饒含著師父的關懷與期望。

年輕的星雲大師深受感動,吃下後,立下志願,誓以一生奉獻佛教,弘法利生,來報答師恩。

✨至今,佛光弟子們每年吃鹹菜,懷念大師的慈悲與願心,傳承與繼起。

☘️這道簡樸的滋味,象徵著修行的清淨與知足,也承載著大師一生奉行的慈悲願行。

。。。 。。。
以前大师的时代,半碗咸菜是那么的珍贵,而且也让大师吃下后发愿:立下志願,誓以一生奉獻佛教,弘法利生,來報答師恩。

有什么看似不起眼,却很重要,而且启发我们一生的事物吗?

p/s: 文字,借分享。

Sunday, September 28, 2025

<人间佛教的思想>,读后感。。

<人间佛教的思想>,读后感。。

微笑😊,问好的布施

佛教说精进,四正勤:
未生善令生起,已生善令增长,
已生恶令断除,未生恶令不生

因缘果报

没有虚空,宇宙万有如何建设?
‘’空‘’中才能生妙‘’有‘’

如无门慧开禅师说的:"春有百花秋有月, 夏有凉风 冬有雪; 若无闲事挂心头, 便是人间好时节。 所谓 "心中有事世间小, 心中无事一床宽"

人间佛教的第一个考试

参与佛光山东禅寺
人间佛教的第一个考试
感受身为佛教徒必须认真
尽本分做到最好。。感恩!

Participating in Fo Guang Shan Dong Chan Temple's first Humanistic Buddhism exam, I realized that as a Buddhist, I must be serious and do my best to fulfill my duties. Thank you!

Tuesday, September 23, 2025

咖啡画

曾看过无数的优质好画
用咖啡绘的画有其别一般的特别。。

绘一幅画,眼睛的观看吸收,经艺术脑海的处理,于巧手绘出笔画的轻重缓急,绘出的画若仿佛捉住那么感动一刻。。

若画中蕴含有温情温度,浓浓乡情,且带有哲学意识(哲意),这画会是来自一位很有历练,修养,不可多得的画家。。

🌳高万丈不忘根
人若辉煌莫忘恩

怀着一颗感恩的心来作画,画出的都会有那么独特优质量的画,若感恩作画中用的笔,绘制中用的彩料,还可重用废料再循环,Waste to Art,是那么的善意,以善意识注入优美绘画的作品中,真是不可多得!

在此推荐黄画家,不是因为她是我的老同学,而是,她是言行一致的,想的,说的,做的,都一致,行善不是说说的,她walk the talk, 出自善良真心的帮助需要帮助的人,愿老同学心想事成,万事如意,期待妳的咖啡画画展!

I've seen countless excellent paintings.
Paintings made with coffee have a unique and special quality..

When you paint a picture, your eyes absorb it, your mind processes it, and your hand paints it with a delicate balance of weight and speed. The resulting painting seems to capture a moving moment.

If a painting embodies warmth, a deep nostalgia, and a philosophical spirit, it must be the work of a truly experienced and accomplished artist.

🌳 Trees even at the height of our power, we must never forget our roots.

If we achieve greatness, we must never forget our gratitude.

Painting with a grateful heart will create unique and high-quality paintings. If we are grateful for the brushes and paints used in our paintings, and if we can reuse and recycle waste materials, Waste to Art is a truly kind act. Infusing beautiful paintings with kindness is truly rare!

 I recommend Painter Huang not because she is my old classmate, but because she practices what she says. What she thinks, says, and does are all consistent. She doesn't just talk about doing good, she walks the talk and helps those in need out of kindness and sincerity. I wish my old classmate all her wishes come true and everything goes well. I look forward to your coffee painting exhibition!

老婆的试验

老婆又再做试验了。。😁
这次做得好吃,又不甜,
给多多个👍👍👍👍👍

My wife's experimenting again😁
This time it's delicious and not too sweet.
Give you lots of 👍👍👍👍👍

小聚小学同学兼老友

小聚小学同学兼老友

她常给人感觉处事很淡定,淡定
有钱挣,是个很有气质与优雅的
女生,从小学,中学到现在都联
络着,这位老朋友,老同学!

Kebab

今天吃着这kebab, 
回想起多年前在德国科隆
双塔大教堂前的一间kebab 
专卖店, 买kebab 来吃,一边
游逛教堂前,和周边的商场,
也在广场上喝咖啡,冷冻的天气,
热闹非凡的人来人往,形成一种
冷热相对的美感,多写意,多欢喜!

While eating this kebab today, I recalled a trip many years ago to a kebab shop in front of the Twin Cathedral in Cologne, Germany. I bought kebabs there while strolling around the cathedral and the surrounding shopping malls, and even had coffee in the square. The cold weather and the bustling crowds created a beautiful contrast between hot and cold. How free and joyful!

观路人

假期,就是要放松,放空
在繁忙的云顶酒吧街,
冷冷的街巷,冷冻的雾气。。
点杯饮品,呆着,望着路人行人
来来往往,好似一种时空停顿
让步伐放慢速度,停止匆忙
让烦躁城市心情,得到缓和
这也是一种体验,一种休息 😁

Vacations are all about relaxing and unwinding.

In the bustling Genting Highlands bar district,

the cold streets, the frozen mist...

Order a drink, stay still, and watch the passersby.

The comings and goings are like a pause in time and space.

Slow down your pace, stop rushing, and let the frenzy of the city fade away.

This, too, is an experience, a kind of rest. 😁

Saturday, September 6, 2025

老朋友叙旧

老朋友叙旧

中学时不熟,大学时才往来,
常约打球喝茶☕,大学时还帮助过我很多的忙,多年没见面了,今天再聚叙旧,一个不可多得的好朋友!👍👍👍

Friday, September 5, 2025

我的北大生外甥们

我的北大生外甥们

一个刚于优等毕业,正在工作
一个正被录取,正忙着准备就读

看来姐夫姐姐可以轻松了,孩子们都长大了,迈向另一个阶段,孩子们据续前进,朝更美好的未来奋斗,创造美好前程!

My UUM nephews

One just graduated with 1st class and is working now.

Another has been accepted and is busy preparing to enter uni..

It seems my brother-in-law and sister can now relax. The children have grown up and entered another stage. They continue to move forward, striving for a brighter future and creating a bright future!

Thursday, September 4, 2025

捕捉灵感来写作 - ❤爱的手机

时光飞逝
滴答滴答的流逝
光阴似箭
一点一滴一去不回头
如何留住这时光?
留住这美好的时光?
多谢我的手机
让我捕捉生命中感动的每一刻
钓灵感的启发我写作,从几行字
到几百个字。。成文章。
铭记美好时刻中的人事物
多么的直接坦荡,多么的随意拍写
就要留住人生短暂的珍贵回忆
好好保存,好好的回首看
让人生没白来,让生命没白活。。

Kaloz,家乐 , 阿宝,表弟

Kaloz 用福建话解读-- 就是“家乐”
以我解析:为家家户户带来欢乐,乐趣。这真是表弟阿宝(宝导)和合伙人共同的目标与愿景👍👍👍

之前机缘巧合下,和表弟谈到中国白酒,昨天收到表弟电话,想为我父亲送来一瓶白酒:金好酝
哇,真的很好,表弟真有心❤,父亲肯定会很喜欢和欢喜!

在此先道声谢谢,会在不久请表弟与家人一起吃饭,叙旧叙旧。。

顺着也参观了表弟Kaloz公司的影片视频制作场地,两栋三层楼的公司,让我有所了解其运作和公司工作人员,从制作,编辑,剪接,到出品等等。。

愿表弟(阿宝)事业蒸蒸日上,成绩欣欣向荣,最重要出品多多让观众一家人合家欢,都欢乐多多的制作产品,持续造福观众大家,让观众家家乐,乐融融!

Thursday, August 28, 2025

pulau ketam 电动摩托

中学期间,自从在学院学motor时
捉着它在地上转了几圈,被学院负责人狠狠的训斥了一番,直到考试骑motor 过了独木桥,总算拿到我的motor 执照。。

到考得了开汽车执照,几乎很少很少再骑motor 了。但,这回到吉胆岛,却可在岛上骑电动摩托,来来回回穿梭于行人道之间,顿时也考到我,需重复的驾驶平衡,慢慢的加速,方才能顺利的控制这电动摩托,随风飞驰,凉风阵阵迎面而来,头发飘啊飘,心情也随之乐透了,我们还在行人道上比赛且追逐,路人都看傻了眼 😄,此回忆,还历历在目,充满欢喜。。

战斗神 - 悟空

可以说是僧多粥少?
年轻人选工?
录取工作的资格门槛提高?
AI 来搅局?

年轻人,社会新鲜人,毕业🎓
后,休息足够了,过了毕业旅行后,是适合踏入工作,若条件允许之后就可创业,自食其力,自力更生,这肯定是有挑战,是有辛苦的,但做着做着就上手啦,挨一挨过,就顺啦。。

刚刚顺利完成实习生的外甥,在实习即将完毕之前,已找到工作,过了实习后,即刻上班,脚踏实地的前进,一步步提升。。

愿外甥持续付出努力,学习中也发挥,稳健中再开拓,开拓中再扎实,稳稳当当的创出一片天!

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

棋悟

棋悟

若你与beginner 的对手交手,
可以很顺利的,少错误就可拿下对手;但当对的对手越厉害时,失误就会越多,重要的棋子可能也都会被吃了,而至结果输了那盘棋。

人生何尝不是如此。。
人生小时候若圆满不缺的棋局,遇到的问题不多也不大,很容易感觉处处圆满,不难去争取些些的成果。。

但日渐成长,走过一段的人生岁月后,遇见的事事开始不尽如愿,面对的人,事,物更是相对复杂,若下棋的对手变得更高深莫测,棋步出奇束手无策,充满挑战,前路曲折,崎岖不平,高低起伏,坎坷不断,已不容易,不再如意的,可能要牺牲这只棋子或那只,车或炮,方能换得那个偷闲得来的短暂休息歇一歇。。

也遇到一些马后炮的搅局人,看了事情的结果,才来说三道四,为何不这样,不那样; 人生那会有得如果,走每一步,就只有结果和后果(但人生很可以有得take 2,重来..,或换个跑道,或换另一盘棋局),在低速度的人间处境里,人人都是种什么因,就得什么果,棋盘中也一样,举棋不悔(起手无回)。莫想于超光速的而去改变前因后果,时空隧道穿梭的理论还在探索研究着。。

有人说,一个人的成功,要全方面的达成:身体健康,家庭和谐,平安快乐,事业有成,回馈社会。

但人生很少会得圆满,守到这个,可能失去那个,若有了事业辉煌,却没了健康的身体,若有豪华的大房子,里面却没有开心的欢笑声,若棋步,要学会取舍,辛苦中换来一些欢乐,努力锻炼了方得到好的体魄,若过着苦日子的人们,都要正面的朝正确的方向前进,早日苦尽甘来,离苦得乐!

Friday, August 8, 2025

无常,放下

Impermanence

Aging, illness, death, life
We cannot control or change them. 

We can only remain calm and endure. We follow the flow of time, taking one step forward and then releasing the next. 

We stop looking back and dwelling on the past, and keep moving forward. 

We live in the present and strive towards a better future.

With the passage of time, the pain will ease, but the love will endure, etched in our hearts.

Borrowed photo for sharing.

无常

老,病,死,生
我们都无法控制,无法改变
我们只能沉着住气,顶着,
跟着时间走,前脚踏,后脚放,
别在回头望和想,向前走去,
活在当下,好好的朝更好的前进。

随着时间的流逝,痛苦将会减轻,而爱将会永存,铭记在心底。

照片,借分享。

Wednesday, August 6, 2025

缘来一只猫🐱

缘来一只猫🐱

平时比较少接触猫
那天坐在东禅寺时
缘来,来了一只猫

它,走穿过我坐的椅子下一圈
停在我的左前边,回头望一望我
若仿佛的和我说hello..

让我觉得,东禅寺是个很好的地方
坐着,坐着,都可感受到鸟语花香
瞪着,瞪着,可看见猫咪这双大眼睛,也许觉得是星期五旁晚,接近周末,自己身上的火气也没那么大了。。恰好吸引了这只可爱的猫咪🐱。。真是:缘来一只猫🐱

Sunday, August 3, 2025

让生命有得take 2!

让生命有得take 2!

曾经有人对我说
在家里客厅摆着的钟
不可以没电,一定要它持续运作
那才会有“生气”,运才会持续运转

让历史140年悠久
安顺的斜塔,换了齿轮
‘’大钟楼‘’钟声再次响起
让这地标永续操作
让这美丽流芳百世。。

Let life be worth taking 2!

Someone once told me that the clock in my living room must never run out of power; it must keep running. That way, there's vitality, and luck will continue to flow.

Let the 140-year-old history of Teluk Intan's Leaning Tower change gears. The bells of the "Grand Clock Tower" ring once again. Let this landmark continue to operate sustainably, and let its beauty live on forever.

觉诚法师 - 如来之子智慧与启发

觉诚法师

在观看<佛教靠我,星云传承>DVD, 得知觉诚法师曾到巴西弘法,筑成了<如来之子>计划,遇到窃匪,还拿着抢对着法师的太阳穴,幸好最后都化险为夷,这让法师发愿:度不到你这窃匪,但总可以让我来帮助你们的孩子吧。。

觉诚法师到巴西贫民窟,帮助当地人改变宿命,远离贩毒,暴力和种种的社会问题,在这十五年里,付出了多少汗水和眼泪,法师凡事一步一脚印,做中学,学中做。法师练成了(无生法忍),平时关注每个小细节,筑成了如来寺,而如来之子的计划,更帮助了无数巴西的贫民看到希望,改变了他们的宿命。

在因缘际会下,从早餐孩子们要吃面包,到后来出了名,大街小巷都家喻户晓的Pao de monge 的法师面包🍞,是那么的随缘,也和爱找麻烦的邻居约翰,由怨而成为好邻居。。

大马出生的觉诚法师在陌生的巴西弘法十五年,种种的经历让我真的很佩服,想起我多年前出差到墨西哥,只在那边一个月,已经过得很难熬,法师的坚持心,发愿是如此的强大和慈悲。

我也感觉到很愧疚,到墨西哥只学到几句西班牙语,而法师却学巴西的葡萄牙语远至到大学的程度,真是佩服佩服。。

觉诚法师那<天下无敌>的真诚,是对每一个人都和好,从来没有树立或定义他人为敌人,此宽容大度值得大家学习。